伟大文学与《长路》的初印象
Ryan Holiday: 对我来说,《长路》(The Road)的部分意义在于文明与混乱之间那条细细的界线,在于“我们同舟共济”与“人人各自为战”之间的那层外衣。
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Ryan Holiday: To me, part of the road is about that thin line between civilization and chaos, the veneer between we're all in this together and every man and family for themselves.
Gilbert Cruz: 我是 Gilbert Cruz,这里是《纽约时报》(The New York Times)的书评播客。21世纪的100本最佳图书。我在这个节目中多次提到过那个项目,我们在2024年夏天发布了它。这是一项庞大的工程,我们联系了1000多位小说家、非虚构作家、诗人、书店老板,以及各类文学爱好者,询问他们认为本世纪迄今为止最优秀的书籍是什么。我们希望尽早了解哪些当代作品可能会产生持续的共鸣,成为伟大的著作。我们收集了所有这些数据,进行了数据处理和汇总,并最终整理出了这份书单。但当然,即便是最详尽的书单,能告诉你的关于每本书的信息也是有限的。真正最大的乐趣在于谈论这些书。所以今天,我们要深入探讨名单上的第13本书,Cormac McCarthy(科马克·麦卡锡)的《长路》。McCarthy 于 2023 年去世,他创作过像《老无所依》(No Country for Old Men)和《天下骏马》(All the Pretty Horses)这样广受欢迎且传统的作品,也有像《血色子午线》(Blood Meridian)那样华丽而复杂的著作。在《天下骏马》大获成功之后,他基本上远离了文学界的聚光灯,把大部分时间(尤其是晚年)花在了圣塔菲研究所(Santa Fe Institute)——那是一个充满科学家、物理学家和数学家的智库。他去世后,《名利场》(Vanity Fair)的一篇文章揭露了一些事情,使得他的遗存变得复杂起来。那篇文章详细描述了他在40多岁时如何与一名十几岁的女孩开始了一段性关系。现在有关于她可能对他的写作产生了多大影响的争论。但对于在2007年获得普利策奖的《长路》,McCarthy 曾表示,他是从儿子那里获得了灵感。这本书讲述了一位父亲和他年幼的儿子试图在一个寒冷、灰暗、充满灰烬的末日后的美国生存下来的故事。与 McCarthy 的其他作品一样,这本书将华丽精致的语言与令人毛骨悚然、难以忘怀的画面交织在一起。他从不使用引号。也别跟他提分号,他一点也不喜欢。它给人一种既极简又极其丰富的感觉。这是一本了不起的书,我想和其中一位在评选“21世纪迄今最佳图书”选票上填了它的评委谈谈,他就是 Ryan Holiday。Ryan 是十几本非虚构类书籍的作者,其中很多是关于古老的斯多葛学派(Stoicism)哲学的。他是《每日斯多葛》(The Daily Stoic)播客的主持人,也是得克萨斯州巴斯特罗普(就在奥斯汀郊外)画廊书店(The Painted Porch Bookshop)的老板。Ryan,感谢你的到来。
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Gilbert Cruz: I'm Gilbert Cruz, and this is the book review from The New York Times. The 100 best books of the 21st century. I've made reference many times on this show to that project, [music] which we published in summer 2024. It was this massive effort [music] where we reached out to more than 1,000 novelists and non-fiction writers, poets, [music] bookstore owners, all sorts of lovers of literature to ask what they thought were the best books of the century so far. We wanted to get an early read on what might be the great works from now that continue to resonate. We took all that data, number crunched, compiled it, and put together this list. But of course, even the most robust list of books can only tell you so much about each title. It's in talking about them, that's where the great fun lies. So today, we're going to dig in on one of those books, number 13 on the list, The Road by Cormac McCarthy. McCarthy, who died in 2023, is the author behind books as popular and traditional as No Country for Old Men and All the Pretty Horses, and as ornate and knotty as Blood Meridian. Following the success of All the Pretty Horses, he largely stayed out of the literary spotlight, spending much of his time, particularly his later years, at the Santa Fe Institute, a think tank full of scientists, physicists, and mathematicians. His legacy was complicated after his death by revelations in a Vanity Fair article. The piece detailed how he'd started a sexual relationship with a teenage girl when he was in his 40s. There's now been debate about how much she may have influenced his writing. But for The Road, which won a Pulitzer in 2007, McCarthy has said he looked to his son for inspiration. It tells the story of a man and his young boy trying to survive in a cold, gray, ash-filled post-apocalyptic United States. The book, like others by McCarthy, mixes beautiful and ornate language with gruesome and unforgettable images. He doesn't use quotation marks. Don't even talk to him about semicolons, he is not a fan. It feels both minimalist and maximalist at the same time. It's an amazing book and I wanted to talk about it with one of the people who put it on their ballot of the best books of the 21st century so far, Ryan Holiday. Ryan is the author of more than a dozen nonfiction books, many about the ancient philosophy of Stoicism. He is the host of The Daily Stoic podcast and owner of The Painted Porch Bookshop in Bastrop, Texas, just outside Austin. Ryan, thank you for being here.
Ryan Holiday: 是的,谢谢你的邀请。
Original English
Ryan Holiday: Yeah, thank you for having me.
Gilbert Cruz: Ryan,你是协助制定这份榜单的500人之一。除了知道你是一名作家之外,很多人也是通过你在 Instagram 和 YouTube 上的书籍推荐认识你的,我想把所有这些经验都考虑在内,在开始时问你:你发现是什么让人们一遍又一遍地重读一本优秀的小说?我认为这与人们为什么会反复阅读一本充满信息的非虚构类书籍是不同的。
Original English
Gilbert Cruz: Ryan, you are one of the 500 people that helped make this list. In addition to knowing you as an author, like so many people know you from your book recommendations on Instagram and on YouTube, I want to take all that experience into account and ask you as we start, what have you found is the thing that makes people return to a good novel over and over again, which I think is different from what makes people return to a piece of nonfiction that's full of information?
Ryan Holiday: 我认为伟大小说的作用在于它们会与你共同成长。因此,你第一次阅读时从中获取的体会,与你第二、第三、第四次阅读时所获得的感悟是不同的。我想也许有一些非虚构类书籍也能做到这一点。通常来说,非虚构书籍里充满了建议,你不可能一次性全部吸收;但我倾向于认为,对于小说而言,正是那些丰富的描写、立体的人物以及它们身上复杂的人性,让你在重读时能在更深的层面上理解它们。你读《奥德赛》(The Odyssey),在某种层面上,它是关于一个男人试图回家的故事。当你年纪稍长一些时,你会觉得:“哦,实际上这个人不是在努力回家,而是注定要永远在漂泊和行动。”你也许会更多地将他视为一个悲剧人物。所以我认为伟大的小说在两个层面上起作用:首先是表层,比如它在第一次阅读时很具娱乐性、令人兴奋并且能产生共鸣;但是随着你一次又一次地重读,你会从中获得一些不同的东西。《了不起的盖茨比》(The Great Gatsby)显然就是个绝佳的例子。在一个层面上,它是爵士时代完美的缩影;然后你在另一个层面上会意识到,它讲的是美国梦,是野心,是腐败,是物质主义,是所有这些其他的主题。也许你在高中读它们的时候,还没有能力领悟所有这些内涵,但是随着年龄的增长,它会向你展现出越来越多的面向。
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Ryan Holiday: I think what the great novels do is they grow with you. So, what you take out of them the first time is different than what you take out of them the second and the third and the fourth time. And I suppose there's nonfiction that this can be true for. Usually, you know, it's sort of so packed with advice that, you know, you can't get it all in one or but I I tend to find with novels, it's the richness of the writing and the characters and the complicated nature of them that you come to understand on a deeper level. You read the Odyssey and on some level it's about a guy getting home. Then you get older and you go, "Oh, this is actually a guy who's less trying to get home, but is sort of condemned to always be moving and and doing." And you see him perhaps more as a tragic figure. And so I think the great novels, they work on both like a superficial level, like it's entertaining and exciting and relatable the first time, but then as you read and reread and reread, you get something else. Gatsby's obviously a great example of this. On on one level, it's a perfect snapshot of the Jazz Age. And then you realize on a different level it's about the American dream, it's about ambition, it's about corruption, it's about materialism, it's it's about all these other themes. And and perhaps you're not equipped to get all of them when you read them in high school, but as you get older, it reveals more and more of itself to you.
Gilbert Cruz: 我认为这种表达方式非常贴切。我当然也经历过这种情况。一本好书确实可以随着你的成长、随着你年岁的增长而与你一同成长。如果我们今天谈论的是《长路》,我想在这里为那些还没机会读、或者已经很久没读过的人快速回顾一下剧情会很有用。所以,这本书开篇是一对父子。我们从未知道他们的名字。在某种灾难性的灾变之后,他们试图穿越美国。我们不知道究竟发生了什么,是陨石撞击?还是核战争?他们推着一辆装满所有家当的购物车,试图前往海岸线,再往南走一点,他们认为那里会更安全,或者至少更温暖。在路上,他们好几次濒临饿死。他们靠残羹冷炙生存,而且他们必须躲藏起来并时刻保持警惕,因为在这条路上,最大的危险之一就是其他人。书中多次提到,地球上的其他一些幸存者已经开始同类相食了。所以他们想离那些人远点。总的来说,这是一个父亲真正尽一切可能让儿子活下去的故事,同时在内心深处,他知道这可能并不够。因此我想谈谈那个故事,再次强调,它非常荒凉,极具世界末日的色彩,它是如何伴随你成长的,Ryan。我想深入了解你第一次读它时的情形。你说你是在大学二年级时拿起这本书的。
Original English
Gilbert Cruz: I think that's a useful way of putting it. I've experienced this, of course. A a great book can grow with you as you grow and as you get older. If we're going to talk about The Road, I think it would be useful to quickly recap it here for anyone who hasn't had a chance to read it yet or hasn't read it in a while. So, the book begins with a father and a son. We never learn their names. And they're trying to make their way across the US in the wake of some kind of cataclysmic disaster. We never learn what exactly happened. Was it a meteor? Was it a nuclear They're pushing a shopping cart with everything that they own in it and they're trying to get to the coast, a little bit down south where they think they're going to be safer or at least warmer. Along the way, they are near starvation several times. They're surviving on scraps and they're having to hide out and keep watch because one of the biggest dangers on the road is other people. It is said many times in the book that some of their fellow survivors on Earth have turned to cannibalism. So, they want to stay clear of those people. Overall, it's this story of a father, a dad really trying to do everything he can to keep his son alive while knowing deep down inside that it might not actually be enough. So, I want to talk about how that story, again, very bleak, very apocalyptic, uh has grown with you, Ryan. I want to dig into the first time that you read it. You said that you picked it up as a college sophomore.
Ryan Holiday: 是的。
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Ryan Holiday: Mhm.
Gilbert Cruz: 那时候你是个爱读小说的人吗?就像,你是哪种类型的……
Original English
Gilbert Cruz: And were you a big reader of fiction then? Like, what
Ryan Holiday: 我不知道。除了学校布置的那类书,我不认为我当时是小说的大读者。我不认为我知道外面有这样的书。我不知道那时我是否听说过《天下骏马》或《血色子午线》。
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Ryan Holiday: I I don't know. I don't think I was a big reader of fiction except for, you know, the kinds of books that you would be assigned in school. I don't think I knew that there was books like this out there. I didn't I don't know if I knew about All the Pretty Horses or Blood Meridian yet.
Gilbert Cruz: 是的。
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Gilbert Cruz: Mhm.
Ryan Holiday: 但是,在我人生的那个阶段,我绝对更倾向于阅读非虚构类作品。
Original English
Ryan Holiday: But, uh I would I was much more a non-fiction reader at that point in my life.
Gilbert Cruz: 是的。你在上大学,你正在摸索一切,你想象整个世界都在你面前。你的整个人生都在你面前展开。
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Gilbert Cruz: Yeah. You're in college, you're figuring stuff out, you're imagining the whole world is ahead of you. Your whole life is ahead of you.
Ryan Holiday: 是的。
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Ryan Holiday: Yes.
Gilbert Cruz: 然后你拿起这本书,它就像是在说,其实,或许并非如此。也许世界随时都可能终结。你第一次读这本书时有什么感觉?
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Gilbert Cruz: And you pick up this book, which is like, actually, maybe maybe not. Maybe the world can end at any point. How did you feel when you read this for the first time?
Ryan Holiday: 是的,它是黑暗、令人压抑且警醒的。我想我当时被它那如诗般美丽的文字及其文字的克制和稀疏感所震撼。我确实记得就在那个时候,我看了电影《人类之子》(Children of Men),这也是一部基于小说改编的、同样具有末日色彩的作品。所以,那可能也影响了我的阅读体验,但我只记得当时心想:“哇,这真的太酷了。我应该去读读这家伙的其他作品。”但是,作为一个大学二年级左右的学生,你知道的,我没有孩子,我还没有结婚。我觉得这也从侧面证明了这本书有多么出色——即便你真的完全无法想象驱动这本书核心的那种情感纽带,你依然可以去阅读和体验它。
Original English
Ryan Holiday: Yeah, I mean, it's dark and depressing and alarming. I think I was struck by the beauty of the writing, the sparseness of it. I do remember right around that time seeing the movie Children of Men, which was another It's based on a novel as well, but another sort of similarly apocalyptic work. So, that was probably coloring my experience, but I just remember thinking, "Wow, this is really cool. I should read this guy's other stuff." But, being a sophomore in college or or thereabouts, you know, I don't have kids, I'm not married. I guess it's a testament to how good the book is that it can still be read and experienced even if you really can't even conceive of the central sort of relationship driving the book.
Gilbert Cruz: 当然。在那第一次阅读中,有没有让你印象深刻、至今记得的瞬间?自 2006 年它出版以来我就没再读过了。所以,现在正是它迎来20周年的时刻。我依然记得那个关于可乐的情节,发生在书的第25页。父亲和儿子路过一台旧自动售货机,父亲找到了一罐可口可乐,他把它给了他的儿子,而儿子完全不知道那是什么。他从未见过它,也从未尝过它。他说它冒泡泡。这让他有些惊讶。当然,那男人对可乐非常熟悉,这是现代生活中最伟大的饮料之一。那只是一个很美妙的小瞬间,而它这么多年来一直留在我的脑海里。
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Gilbert Cruz: Sure. On that first read, were there moments that stood out to you that you remembered? I had not read this book since it came out in 2006. So, it's it's celebrating its 20th anniversary. And I still remember the moment with the Coke, which happens 25 pages in. The father and son come by an old soda machine, and the father, he finds a Coca-Cola, and he gives it to his son, who has no idea what it is. He's never seen it. He's never tasted it. He says it's bubbly. It's sort of surprising to him. The man, of course, is very familiar with Coke, one of the great drinks in modern existence. And it's just a nice little moment. And that has stuck with me all these years.
守住内心的火焰与文学的启迪
Ryan Holiday: 从这本书中我得到最多的是**“带着火焰”(carrying the fire)**的意象。我把它视为这本书的核心信息,即我们内心深处存在着这种善良、道德感和真诚,这是一种与生俱来的东西,作为在堕落、破碎甚至充满邪恶的世界里生存的父母和个体,我们的职责就是让那团火继续燃烧,去带着它前行。我认为那是我受触动最深的地方。我记得几年后,我买了一个(或者是别人给我的)Zippo 打火机,上面只写着“carry the fire”(带着火焰)。它就放在我的办公桌上。所以,我一直很喜欢这一点。而且,你知道后来在阅读 McCarthy 其他书籍时让我感到惊讶的是什么吗?在《长路》里有一种希望、积极和善良的层面,这在他其他的书里通常不是主题,他其他的书太黑暗了,对人性及人类社会的批判太严厉了。《长路》中有比他写过的任何其他作品都要温情得多的东西。
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Ryan Holiday: The thing I took most out of the book was the image of carrying the fire. I took that as the central message of the book, that there is this kind of goodness, morality, earnestness that we have in us, an innateness, that the job of both the parent and the person surviving in a fallen, broken, you know, evil world is to keep that fire alive, to carry it. And I think that was what I was most struck by. And I remember a few years later, I bought or someone gave me a Zippo lighter that just said carry the fire on it. And it sits on my desk. And and so, I've I've always loved that. Um and you know what I think has struck me about it, you know, reading other Cormac McCarthy books later, is there's a level of hopefulness and positivity and goodness there that is not uh so much a theme in many of his other books, which are so dark and so scathing of sort of human nature and human society. There's something uh much sweeter about the road than any anything else he writes.
Gilbert Cruz: 听到你用“甜美、温情”(sweet)这个词来形容这本书让人感到很不可思议,其原因可能是显而易见的。这是一本极其黑暗的书。但我认为你是对的,正如我们可能稍后会讨论的那样,让我感到惊讶的是,它最终走向了一个充满希望的地方。我想象你作为一个大学里的年轻人,思考着关于火焰、善良、道德,以及作为一个人的意义。我试着回忆我那个年纪的时候是什么样子。就像我只是想度过每一天而已。也许我表现得比在家里还要疯狂一点。我并没有用那样的方式去思考做世界上一个人意味着什么。
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Gilbert Cruz: It's amazing to hear you use the word sweet in relation to this book for perhaps obvious reasons. It's a very dark book. But I think you're right, as we'll probably discuss, where it ends up is to my surprise, a place of hope at the end. I'm imagining you a young man in college thinking about the fire, thinking about goodness, morality, what it means to be a person. I'm trying to remember how I was at that age. Just like I'm just try to get through. Maybe I'm being a little crazier than I would have been at home. I'm not thinking about being a person in the world that way.
Ryan Holiday: 我想我当时是这样想的。那就是我认为在人生的那个阶段,文学和哲学吸引我的原因——对于意义、目的和道德那种非常真诚的兴趣。我认为我在小说和非虚构作品中都被这一点所吸引,因为……我不知道。我只是需要我想要的精神食粮,我确实认为最优秀的艺术做到了这一点,那就是——不是为了把它说得多高雅——它帮助我们“带着火焰”。就像我们在这些故事、雕塑、绘画、马赛克和神话中看到的,那种关于更高使命或更高潜能的东西,激发了我们自己在行为中可能转瞬即逝的那种力量和品质。
Original English
Ryan Holiday: I guess I was. I mean, that's what I think drew me to to literature and philosophy, especially at that time in my life, was that very genuine interest in meaning and purpose and morality. I think I was drawn to that in fiction and in non-fiction because um I don't know. I just wanted I wanted my fix, which I do think the best the best art does is it it gives us not to put it to to quarterly. Like it helps us carry the fire. Like we see in these stories and statues and paintings and mosaics and myths, like something about that higher calling or higher capacity in it inspires in us maybe fleeting examples of that in our own behavior.
Gilbert Cruz: 也许因为显而易见的原因,这是一部背景设定在末日后世界的小说。大多数人都暴毙而亡。上帝也大部分缺席了。但书中的男人极少提及上帝。至少在他的观念里,不管上帝是什么,在这个故事中几次他都有跟他交谈过。而且在书的开头,他看着自己的孩子说道,他当时就那样坐着,拿着双筒望远镜,看着灰白的日光在土地上凝固。他只知道这个孩子是他的担保人。他说:“如果他不是上帝的话语,那么上帝就从未开过口。” 这里有一种意义感,而那种意义存在于他对之负责的另一个人身上。
Original English
Gilbert Cruz: It is a book in which, perhaps for obvious reasons, it's a post-apocalyptic world. Most people have died violently. God is absent largely. But the man makes scant reference to it. You know, at least in the idea that the whatever the God is, there's something there that he talks to a couple of times in the book. But also early on in the book, he looks at his child and he says, uh then he just sat there holding the binoculars and watching the ashen daylight congeal over the land. He knew only that the child was his warrant. He said, "If he is not the word of God, God never spoke." And there is a sense of meaning and that meaning is in this other person that he is responsible for.
Ryan Holiday: 是的,我也标记了那段文字。我非常……
Original English
Ryan Holiday: Yeah, I I marked I marked that passage also. I I I was very
Gilbert Cruz: 幸运的男人。
Original English
Gilbert Cruz: man, luckily.
Ryan Holiday: 我被它深深震撼了。是的,年幼的孩子身上有一种纯洁和神圣,我确实认为我们有义务保护他们,并引领他们走向自己的生存。我想这就是他所说的“带着火焰”的意思。这是赋予你的东西,别让它熄灭。
Original English
Ryan Holiday: I was very very struck by that. Yeah, there there is a a purity and a holiness in a young child that I do think we're obligated to protect and shepherd into its existence. And that that's kind of what I thought he meant by carrying the fire. Like this is this thing that you've been given. Don't let it go out.
Gilbert Cruz: 我被那段文字震撼,也同样被众多其他段落所折服。他的文笔前无古人。那种节奏感、词汇的选择,书中有一半的词我以前都没见过,我一度确信那是他编造的,直到我去查字典才发现:“不,这是一个真实的词。你只是没有 Cormac McCarthy 那样渊博的词汇量罢了。”书中有些瞬间,如果你不介意的话,我可以读一下这一段。这段情节在发生的事情上并没有特别引人注目,但他在书里行文的节奏感真的是不可思议。柔和的黑色滑石粉像海底喷出的墨汁一样吹过街道,寒气逼人,黑夜早早降临,拾荒者拿着火把穿过陡峭的峡谷,在堆积的灰烬中踩下柔软的洞,身后的洞像眼睛一样无声地闭合了。他在节奏、步调、词汇选择和意象构建上展现的技巧,让我回想起20多岁第一次读到它时,甚至在那时我就觉得:“这是大师级的。我不知道怎么才能超越这个。”
Original English
Gilbert Cruz: I was struck by that passage, but also by so many other passages. He writes like no one I've ever read. The The sense of rhythm, the word choice, half of the words that I'd never seen before, I was convinced he made up and then I looked up the words. I was like, "No, this is a real word. You just don't have Cormac McCarthy's vocabulary." There is a moments if if you mind me reading this. It's not particularly
Ryan Holiday: Yeah.
Gilbert Cruz: notable for what happens, but there's just the rhythm of his prose in this book is out of sight. The soft black talc blew through the streets like squid ink uncoiling along a seafloor and the cold crept down and the dark came early and the scavengers passing down the steep canyons with their torches trod silky holes in the drifted ash that closed behind them as silently as eyes. He is doing something with rhythm here and pacing and word choice and imagery that I remember as a person in their 20s when I read this the first time. Even then I was like, I this is elite. Like I don't know how to how to get over this.
Ryan Holiday: 是的,我认为有两件事。首先,我有一个自己的理论:对于某些作者或特定的书籍,他们在此前所做的一切都在引领他们走向这个完美的瞬间。就像我认为 Michael Lewis 写了五六本或者十几本那种以金融人物为驱动的书之后,伟大的金融危机发生了,而他正是那个解释这一切的完美人选。类似地,Cormac McCarthy 写过的所有东西、经历过的一切、他古怪的世界观等等,他所有的作品,以及数千个小时作为作家对技艺的打磨,都在为这本书做铺垫。然后我注意到的另一件事是,它其实有一种《疯狂的麦克斯》(Mad Max)式的元素,我可能在头两遍阅读时忽略了这点。
Original English
Ryan Holiday: Yeah, I think there's two things. So, one I kind of have this pet theory that there are certain authors or books where everything they'd done up until that point was leading them to this sort of perfect moment. Like I think Michael Lewis wrote a half dozen or a dozen sort of finance character driven books and then the great financial crisis happened and he was the perfect person to explain that thing. And everything that Cormac McCarthy wrote and went through and his weird world view and whatever, all of his work his thousands and thousands of hours his craft as a writer is all leading up to that. Then the other thing I noticed is it has more of a Mad Max element that that I think I missed on on the first couple readings.
Gilbert Cruz: 当然。而且他只是将这些元素散落在书中,但这些元素的出现却非常引人注目。你知道,他谈到了那种血腥邪教、掠夺者以及所有这些东西。换作其他作家,可能会把这些作为核心的紧张来源。但 McCarthy 并没有这么做。他把这个故事变成了主要讲述那个男人和他儿子之间核心关系的故事。他很少接受采访,但他在2007年当奥普拉(Oprah)将这本书选入她的读书俱乐部时,罕见地接受了一次采访。他出现在她的节目中,告诉她《长路》的灵感来自于2003年一次去埃尔帕索(El Paso)的旅行。他带着年幼的儿子 John 去了埃尔帕索。他的儿子睡着了,McCarthy 看着酒店窗外,想象着这个小镇在50或100年后会是什么样子。他说他想象远处山丘上的火光,然后他想到了他的儿子,如果儿子生活在那个可怕的世界里会是什么样子。直到几年后他才写出这本书,但显然那正是灵感迸发的时刻。所以毫无疑问,他将《长路》献给了他的儿子。这一切都与你下一次拿起《长路》时息息相关。
Original English
Gilbert Cruz: Sure. There is a and he only speckles this throughout but the the appearances of this element are very notable. You know, he talks about sort of the blood cults and the marauders and all this stuff and and and other author would have made that the central source of tension. But McCarthy doesn't do that. He makes this story about the core relationship between the man and his son. He didn't do many interviews but he actually did a rare interview in 2007 when Oprah picked the book for her book club. He appeared on her show and he told her that the inspiration for the road came during a 2003 visit to El Paso. He went to El Paso with his young son John. His son was asleep and McCarthy looked out the hotel window and imagined what that town might look like in 50 100 years. He says he imagined fires on a distant hill and he thought about his son and what it would be like for son to live in that terrible world. He didn't write the book until years later but clearly that was the moment he dedicates The Road not surprisingly to his son. This is all relevant to the next time that you picked up The Road.
末日求生作为父职的极致隐喻
[music] 稍后,Ryan Holiday 将谈论他在多年后有了自己的孩子,重读《长路》时的感受,以及这如何带来了一种完全不同的阅读体验。我们马上回来。 [music]
Gilbert Cruz: 给我讲讲吧。
Original English
Gilbert Cruz: Tell me about it.
Ryan Holiday: 是的,我不知道我当时在想什么,但我决定重读《长路》,这不仅仅发生在我有了孩子之后,而且正是在新冠疫情的早期。
Original English
Ryan Holiday: Yeah, I don't know what I was thinking, but I decided to reread The Road, not just after I had kids, but in in the early days of the pandemic. Um
Gilbert Cruz: 完美的时机。
Original English
Gilbert Cruz: Perfect.
Ryan Holiday: 是的,有趣的是,我无法让自己去读加缪的《鼠疫》(The Plague),但我确实决定拿起《长路》。我记得我一口气把它读完了。我读完时,刚哄我大儿子上床睡觉。他那时候大概三岁半,或者四岁吧。当我读完时,我的妻子还在哄我们的小宝宝睡觉,我环顾这栋空荡荡的房子。四下漆黑。我们住在得克萨斯州的乡下。我当时心想,我不能一个人待着。我走进他的房间,当场崩溃大哭起来。因为,《长路》不仅捕捉到了为人父母的美好,同时也捕捉到了那种恐惧。有人说过:你的孩子就像是你在身体外面到处跑动的心脏。那是一段艰难的时期。显然,现在我们知道故事的结局如何了。但在疫情初期,我们未必知道。我觉得我极其敏锐地感受到了所有这一切。而且听到这本书的灵感部分来源于一个熟睡的孩子,我觉得非常有意思。这其中也确实存在某种联系……作为父母你总是忙忙碌碌,但当你慢下来,看到他们安然入睡时,你不可能不为之动容。
Original English
Ryan Holiday: Yeah, I It's funny because I I couldn't bring myself to read Camus' The Plague, but I did decide to pick up The Road, and I remember zipping through it. I finished it. I just put my oldest son to bed. He would have been three and a half, maybe four. And as I I finished, my wife was still putting our our our baby down, and I'm just looking around this empty house. It's dark. We live out in the country in Texas. And I was like, I can't be by myself. And I I went into his room, and I just broke down and wept. Because, you know, it it it the road captures both the beauty and the horror of being a parent. That this incredible bond, you know, it's been said like your kid is your heart running around outside your body. That was a difficult moment in time. Obviously, now we know how the story ends. But we didn't necessarily in those early days of the of the pandemic. And I think I felt all that very acutely. And it's interesting to me to hear that the book was somewhat inspired by a by a sleeping child. There is there is something about that, too, that is um you know, if you're you're just always going as a parent, but when you slow down and you see them sleeping there at peace, it it's impossible not to be moved by it.
Gilbert Cruz: 是那个时刻,或者说是那次重读的什么触动了你,让你产生了这种想法:“我需要待在我的孩子身边”,或者“在这个特定时刻我绝不能孤身一人”?
Original English
Gilbert Cruz: What was it about that moment or that rereading that led you to this idea, I I need to be near my child, or I cannot be alone at this particular moment?
Ryan Holiday: 我想那是由于这种想法极其真实:世界正在崩塌,而你基本上没有能力去保护他们,也无法替他们抵挡正在发生的一切。《长路》中非常动人的一个场景是他儿子出生的倒叙回忆。你知道,他妻子怀孕了,天空中飘着雷暴云,他只觉得……我记得当时停电了,那是事情即将变糟的第一个征兆,对吧?这种大难临头的感觉。这也就是我在疫情早期的那段日子里回忆起的感受——总统讲话,新闻报道,每天越来越多的病例统计。我们完全有可能走向这本书里描绘的结局。所以我觉得那就是我当时在书里感受到的情绪。那种细微的界线——对我来说,《长路》的部分意义在于文明与混乱之间那条细细的界线,在于“我们同舟共济”与“人人各自为战”之间的那层外衣。
Original English
Ryan Holiday: I mean, I think it's just the the very realness of the idea that the world is falling apart, that you have essentially no ability to protect or shield them from this thing that is happening. And one of the moving scenes in in The Road is a flashback where his son is being born. And you know, his his wife is pregnant and there's like thunderclouds and he just senses that that I think the power goes out and it's the first sign that things are about to go wrong, right? This sort of impending doom. That is kind of the feeling that I remember from some of those early days of the pandemic, the presidential address, the news, the everyday more reports, the case count. There was a possibility of it going the way that it went in this book. And so I think that's the feeling that I had there, the the the thin line to me part of The Road is about that thin line between civilization and chaos, the veneer between we're all in this together and every man and family for themselves.
Gilbert Cruz: 我完全同意。
Original English
Gilbert Cruz: I I absolutely agree.
Ryan Holiday: 是的。伟大的文学作品就像一面镜子。它让你在看到角色遭遇的同时,也反观自己的处境。
Original English
Ryan Holiday: Yeah. And and great literature, you know, is is a mirror. It gets you to reflect on your situation as much as what's happening to the characters.
Gilbert Cruz: 是的。在这世界末日、一切秩序崩溃之后,书中有个处理为人父母境遇的情节深深烙印在我脑海里:有一个陌生人抓住了儿子,而父亲必须做出决定。他有把枪,里面只有两颗子弹,他在那一刻用它杀死了这个坏人。之后,McCarthy 写道:“‘这是我的孩子,’他说,‘我洗掉了死人溅在他头发上的脑浆。这是我的孩子。’然后他用毯子把他裹好,抱到了火堆旁。”显然,这是为人父母的一个极端例子。我们中很少有人非得这么做,但同时,它在隐喻层面上也诠释了有时为人父母意味着什么,那就是:你必须为了孩子去做艰难的事。而且你不得不一次又一次地去做。
Original English
Gilbert Cruz: Yeah, one moment that deals with parenting at the end of the world after all order has broken down um that uh that that really stuck with me is there's this moment when a stranger grabs a hold of the son and the father has to make a decision. He has a gun and it only has two bullets in it and he uses it in that moment to kill this bad guy. And afterwards um McCarthy writes, "This is my child," he said. "I washed a dead man's brains out of his hair. That is my child." Then he wrapped him in the blanket and carried him to the fire. Obviously, this is an extreme example of parenthood. Uh few of us have to do this, but at the same time that metaphorically is what it sometimes means to be a parent, which is you have to do the tough things for your child. You have to do that over and over again.
Ryan Holiday: 我也被那个场景震撼了。并且,那个场景背后所蕴含的残酷代价是,在失去了一颗子弹之后,他现在面对的日常生活现实是:他原本的最后底牌——“好吧,在发生可怕的事情之前,我总能杀了他,然后自杀”——枪里的两颗子弹就是这种保障的代表。所以不得不把那颗子弹用在救儿子上,这就为书的后半部分制造了极其深刻的紧张感:现在每一次遭遇,他都必须去设想,他可能已经没有能力从那些潜在的、令人发指且生不如死的折磨中拯救他和他的儿子了。
Original English
Ryan Holiday: I I was struck by that scene, too. And then what the stakes of that scene mean is that having lost uh one of the bullets, he now faces a day-to-day reality where his insurance policy, like, "Well, I could always kill him and myself before something horrible happens." Those two bullets in the gun are representative of that. And so to have to use that bullet there to save his son creates this profound tension in the rest of the book, which is every exchange he's now having to think about his inability to save him and his son from potentially heinous unlivable torture.
Gilbert Cruz: 是的,在那之后,书中有好几个令人胆战心惊的场景:他把手枪交给了孩子。他基本上是在说:“你知道该怎么做。我必须得去办这件事。呆在这儿。如果有人来了,你必须把这把枪塞进自己的嘴里。”这真的……如果我在这里不爆粗口的话,这实在是太糟糕、太残忍了。但在更深的层面上,它也呼应了他在书开头短暂的倒叙中与妻子的那段对话。她说:“这就是一部恐怖电影。我们就是行尸走肉。也许我们干脆离开这个世界会更好。也许我们现在就该结束这一切,不必再去面对接下来的任何恐惧。”她最终为自己做出了那个决定。而男人则一直在与那种绝望做斗争,对抗着那个念头:是的,我们两人今晚完全可以轻而易举地结束生命,那样一切就结束了,我们也就不用再承受正在经历的这些苦难了。正如他在书快结尾时所说,男人正在衰弱,他快死了。儿子问他:“你做过的最勇敢的事是什么?”男人在将鲜血吐在路上后回答:“今天早上醒来。” 就是这种观念:在所有这些可怕的事情发生后,我每一天都坚强地爬起来,你每一天也都坚强地爬起来,我们两人每一天都在这条长路上并肩走着,这已经是所能做出的最勇敢的壮举了。
Original English
Gilbert Cruz: Yeah, after that there are several bracing scenes in the book where he gives the child the pistol. And he's basically like, "You know what to do. I have to go do this thing. Stay here. If someone comes, you have to put this gun in your mouth." And it is so I'm not going to curse on this, but it is it is terrible. But it also, on a deeper level, it gets this conversation that he has with his wife in these brief flashbacks. There are only a couple near the beginning of the book, which is she says, "This is a horror movie. We're the walking dead. Like, we Maybe it's better for us not to be here anymore. Maybe we should just end this now and not have to deal with the horror of whatever comes next." She eventually makes that decision for herself. And the man is constantly fighting against that despair and that idea that yes, we we could both easily take our lives tonight and that would be the end, and it would save us from all this suffering that we are experiencing. But as he says near the end of the book, the man is fading, he's dying. His son asks him, "What's the bravest thing you ever did?" And the man says, after he spits blood into the road, "Getting up this morning." And it is the idea that every day that I have gotten up after all this terrible stuff has happened, and every day that you get up, and every day that the two of us walk on this road together, we are doing the bravest thing that has ever been done.
Ryan Holiday: 如果说现在重读这本书我感受到了一点瑕疵,那就是妻子的角色。我的记忆中,她是一个没有勇气去面对像行尸走肉般生活恐怖秀的人。我想我在前几遍阅读时并没有体会到这点:我的理解是,她从孩子出生起就基本上拒绝了他,她甚至在孩子刚出生时不想抱他,她所经历的事情或者她本人的某种特质,使得她根本不想和这个孩子扯上任何关系。这让我觉得非常扁平化。我觉得她本可以更加丰满;她作为一个情节推动装置——在这里出现又消失——本可以有更好的刻画方式,而不是仅仅让她显得如此缺乏母性,同时反衬出父亲像个超级英雄。所以,在这次重读中,这部分对我来说确实显得不够真实或缺乏深度。不知道你怎么看。
Original English
Ryan Holiday: I would say the one flaw of the book that I experienced rereading it now is the character of the wife. I remembered her as not having the stomach for the the Walking Dead horror show that was their lives. I guess I didn't pick up on the earlier reads. I took it to mean that she basically rejects the child from birth, that she doesn't want to hold it right after it's born, that there's something about who she is or what she is going through that that makes her not want to have anything to do with the kid. It felt very one-dimensional. I I felt like she could have been more well-rounded, and that her as a plot device, which is that she was there and then wasn't there, could have been rendered in a way that doesn't make her fundamentally un-maternal and the father sort of a superhero. So I I did that did ring less realistic or meaningful to me in this other reading. I don't know what you thought.
Gilbert Cruz: 我同意你的观点。这也是一直伴随 McCarthy 整个职业生涯的批评——至少只要人们在关注他,就会这么说:“你写不好女性角色,你不擅长刻画女性。”然而,与此同时,我认为他在这本书里反复成功击中的一点是,正如你所说,无论是你走着送孩子上学、在他们从攀爬架上摔下来后帮他们清理伤口,还是你置身于末日世界中,作为父母必须做出的那些抉择都能引起深深的共鸣。这正是我认为这本书在思考为人父母的境遇时,特别有意思的地方。
Original English
Gilbert Cruz: I I agree, and I think it was a it's a critique that has followed McCarthy his entire career, or as long as people were paying attention to his career. You know, you can't write female characters, you're not very good at representing. At the same time, however, one of the things that he does do well, I think, is hit over and over again in this book the the ways in which the decisions that a parent has to make, as you said, sort of resonate whether you're walking your kids to school, cleaning them up after they fall off the jungle gym, or you're in a post-apocalypse. I mean, you you I know think this is a particularly interesting book in the context of thinking about parenting.
Ryan Holiday: 是的,我喜欢称其为一本披着外衣的育儿书。我觉得尤其是很多男性可能不会坐下来读一本育儿书,但这里有很多关于父母的教益。就比如你刚刚提到的那一点:你能做出的最勇敢的事,就是每天爬起来继续前进。书里有一段提到他努力给孩子讲故事,讲那些关于美德的故事,只是为了灌输给他希望和价值观。显然,这又连回了“带着火焰”那个主题。我认为这是作为父母极其重要的一部分,也是当今许多儿童文学甚至成人文学中从根本上缺失的东西。比如,英雄人物去哪儿了?如果要说有什么倾向的话,现在的文学更多是关于父母做出自私的选择。你知道,我刚重读了《革命之路》(Revolutionary Road)。那里有现代社会中关于育儿责任、不公以及功能失调的种种挣扎;却很少有让你感觉到自己参与了某种神圣使命的内容——也就是意识到你的孩子就是这份“担保”,而且这种担保具有某种神圣性。
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Ryan Holiday: Yeah, I I like to call it a parenting book in disguise. Like I think a lot of men especially maybe aren't going to sit down and read a parenting book, but there's a lot of parenting lessons in here. Just even your your point about like the bravest thing you can do is just get up and keep going. There's a a part in the book where he's talks about just trying to tell his kids stories, like stories of virtue and just things to instill him with hope and and values. Obviously, you know, this connects back to the idea of carrying the fire. [snorts] I think that's a really important part about being a parent and something that's fundamentally missing in both a lot of children's literature these days and in adult literature. Like where are the heroic figures? Like if if if anything, the literature is like about parents making the selfish choice. You know, I just reread Revolutionary Road. You have the the sort of struggle with the obligations and the unfairness and the dysfunctions of parenting in modern society, but not a lot that sort of gives you a sense of like being part of this kind of sacred like that yeah, your kid is this warrant and that that warrant has a kind of holiness or sacredness to it.
斯多葛主义:即使世界崩塌,也要做“好人”
Gilbert Cruz: 没错。我觉得你正引向我非常想问的一个点,那就是不仅仅关于你作为一位父亲与这本书的关系,更是作为一名践行并鼓励他人尝试践行斯多葛主义哲学的人。斯多葛哲学专注于一系列原则和美德。我觉得这些东西大量地存在于这本书中,不管 Cormac McCarthy 是否有意为之。作为一个整天思考这些问题、思考了许多年并且还写了几本相关著作的人,我很想知道,你是如何看待这两者在这部作品中交汇的。
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Gilbert Cruz: Right, and I feel like you're leading right into something I wanted to ask a bunch about, which is not only about your relationship to this book as a parent, but your relationship to this book as someone who practices and encourages other to to consider practicing the philosophy of stoicism, which is focused on there are a bunch of tenets, bunch of virtues. I feel like a bunch of that stuff is in here, whether Cormac McCarthy intended it or not. And I'm wondering as someone who thinks about that all the time and has thought about that for years and has written several books about it, how you see those two things coming together in this work.
Ryan Holiday: 是的,我认为《长路》里有一种“小写”的斯多葛精神,在某些时候还有关于美德和价值观的“大写”的斯多葛精神。这里有坚韧、有反弹力,有“我做过最勇敢的事就是今早醒来”,但也有一种观念,那就是:听着,我们绝不吃人。我知道这听起来门槛相当低,但是当世界上其他所有人都已经堕落成野蛮人的时候,我们选择不堕落。世界上的其他人可能会偷窃,可能会伤害,可能会为了自己的生存去利用他人,但我们绝对不这么做。而我们不这么做的原因,正如那个孩子无比真诚所说的那样:因为我们是“好人”。你可以在父亲与儿子之间看到这种互动——每次父亲不得不用一种令人困扰的道德抉择来保护他们,或者不得不做一些在文明社会里属于错误的行为,比如洗劫别人的房子时,孩子就会问:“但我们仍然是好人,对吧?我们怎么还是好人呢?”再说一次,我觉得作为父母,我们的首要职责显然是保障孩子们人身上的安全与存活,而紧随其后最紧迫的任务就是——把他们培养成“好人”中的一员。
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Ryan Holiday: Yeah, I think there's a a lowercase stoicism to The Road and then at different times some uppercase stoicism as far as the virtues and the values. There's the sort of toughness and the resiliency and the you know, the bravest thing I did was get up this morning, but there's also the idea of like, hey, look, we don't eat people. I know that seems like a pretty low bar, but like the rest of the world has um has descended into barbarism, but we have chosen not to. Um the rest of the world might steal, the rest of the world might hurt, might use people for its own survival, but we're not going to do that. And we're not going to do that because we're the good guys, as the child so earnestly says. And you can see this kind of interplay between the father and the and the son where it's like every time the father has to make a vexing moral choice or has to protect them or they have to, you know, do something that in a civilized society would be wrong, like raiding someone else's house, the child goes, "But we're still the good guys, right? How how are we the good guys?" And And again, I feel like that our primary job as parents is obviously to keep our kids literally safe and alive and then the next most urgent thing is raising them to be one of the good guys.
Gilbert Cruz: 在快结束时有一个瞬间。当时那个男人身体状况已经很糟了,他说:“每一天都是一个谎言,但你正在死去,这不是谎言。” 我知道你很喜欢说 Memento mori(向死而生)。我曾经带我的孩子去过修道院博物馆(The Cloisters),那是大都会艺术博物馆在曼哈顿上城的一个分馆,里面有很多中世纪的艺术品。那里有一面镜子,镜面上基本上刻着:“记住你将会死去”。当时我给孩子看这个的时候,他大概才九岁或十岁。这也许不是个最好的教育决策。我当时是说:“这是你应该记住的事情。”然后我试图向他解释,但我失败了。那就是做父母的一部分吧。但是,是的,Memento mori(记住你终有一死)。
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Gilbert Cruz: There's a moment near the end. The man is not doing so well and he says, "Every day is a lie, but you are dying. That is not a lie." And I know you like to say memento mori. right there. I I took my child once to The Cloisters, which is a branch of the Metropolitan Museum of Art that is in Upper Manhattan and they have a bunch of medieval art there. And there's a mirror and etched on on mirror is essentially, "Remember you will die." Yeah. My child is probably 10, 9 when I showed this to him. Maybe not the best parenting decision. I was like, this is something you should remember. Then I tried to explain it to him and I failed and that's part of parenting, too. But yeah, memento mori.
Ryan Holiday: 是的,那种认为我们都是凡人、且我们无法决定自己何时离开、如何离开的思想。在《沉思录》(Meditations)里有一段马可·奥勒留(Marcus Aurelius)引用爱比克泰德(Epictetus)的话,我觉得跟《长路》很契合:他说,当你在晚上给你的孩子掖好被子时,你应该对自己说,他们可能活不到明天早上。当他进行这种哲学练习时,我不认为他是为了提前剥离自己的情感。我认为他是在提醒自己,明天从来都不是确定的。每一天都是一个谎言,没有哪一天是确定的。斯多葛学派的人会说,我们每一天都在走向死亡。因此,把每一个瞬间视为理所当然,把身边的人视为理所当然,把事情一直拖延下去,我认为既傲慢又鲁莽。
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Ryan Holiday: Yeah, that that that we are mortal, we don't get to decide when we go, how we go. There's a passage in Meditations where Marcus Aurelius is quoting Epictetus and I think pertains here to the road where he talks about as you tuck your child in at night, he says you should say to yourself they might not make it till the morning. Mhm. And when he does this philosophical practice, I do not think he is detaching in advance. I think he's he's reminding himself that tomorrow is not for certain. That every day is a lie, no day is certain. We are all dying every day, the Stoics would say. And so to take moments for granted, to take people for granted, to put things off is arrogant and reckless, I think.
Gilbert Cruz: 我能再引用书里的另一段话吗?它正好印证了你刚才所说的。有一处 McCarthy 写道:“人们总是在为明天做准备。我不相信那一套。明天并没有为他们做准备。它甚至根本不知道他们在那里。”
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Gilbert Cruz: Can I quote something else from the book? It's just It's hitting right on what you're saying. There's a moment where McCarthy writes, "People were always getting ready for tomorrow. I didn't believe in that. Tomorrow wasn't getting ready for them. It didn't even know they were there."
Ryan Holiday: 是的。我们总是在排斥“现在”这个时刻,不是因为对未来的焦虑——比如,万一发生了可怕的事情怎么办——就是因为我们单纯地假设未来会更好而忽视了现在。而作为父母你常常会这样,你知道,比如“我等不及看他们走路了”,“我等不及他们去上学了”,“我等不及他们开车了”,然后你不可避免地会到达那个里程碑,并许愿能回到你现在的时刻。所以,你还能这样做多久?我们任何人还有多少时间?这个世界还有多少时间?我认为这些绝对是书中挥之不去的主题。
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Ryan Holiday: Yeah. There is something about we're always rejecting this kind of present moment either either in anxiety of the future, like what if this terrible thing could happen, or we're neglecting the present because we're just assuming the future will be better. And you do this as a parent a lot, you know, like can't wait till they walk, I can't wait till they go off to school, I can't wait till they drive, I can't wait to and then inevitably you will get to that benchmark and wish to be back where you are right now. And so how long do you get to do this? How long do any of us have? Does the world have? I think these are some of the haunting themes there of of the book for sure.
Gilbert Cruz: 稍后,Ryan Holiday 将解释为什么在评选21世纪十本最佳书籍时,《长路》是他名单上唯一入选的小说。 当我们让你从21世纪挑出10本书时,《长路》是你选的唯一一本小说。你选了九本非虚构类书籍,然后就是《长路》。我很想多听听关于这方面的想法。
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Gilbert Cruz: When we come back, Ryan Holiday explains why The Road was the only novel he selected for his list of the 10 best books of the 21st century. [music] The Road was the only novel you picked when we asked you to pick 10 books from the 21st century. You picked nine non-fiction books and The Road. And I just want to hear a little bit more about that.
Ryan Holiday: 这真有趣。我不记得名单上的所有书了。我确实觉得大部分现代小说令人失望。我想让我在重读《长路》时感到震撼的是,它让人感觉这根本不是在这个时代出版的书。就像如果你告诉我它的出版日期是1971年或1941年,我大概都会相信。我的意思是,书中确实没什么科技元素会将其局限在某一个时代。但它所散发出的质感,就像是一部陪伴了我们远超20年的小说。我有时会谈论类似的感觉,比如我不相信 Tom Petty 的《Free Fallin》是1989年写的,它听起来比那古老得多;还有《The Night They Drove Old Dixie Down》显然是一首来自内战时期的歌对吧?它不可能是近代才创作的。而且,我极少会有这样的体验——读到一篇新作时,却觉得它仿佛已经存在了永恒岁月。这就是我读《长路》时得到的感受。
Original English
Ryan Holiday: That's funny. I don't remember all of the all of the the books on the list. I I do tend to find that most modern fiction is disappointing. And I think what I was struck by, you know, rereading The Road, is how much it felt like a book not published in this time. Like if you told me the publication date was 1971 or 1941, I'd probably buy most of it. Like uh I mean, certainly there's not much in the way of technology that that dates the book one way or another. But it does have the feel of a novel that's been with us a lot longer than 20 years. I sometimes talk about like uh I don't believe that Free Fallin by Tom Petty was written in 1989. It's much older than that. And uh The Night They Drove Old Dixie Down is obviously a song from the Civil War, right? Like it could not have been written as recently as it was. And very rarely do I have the experience where I read something new and I feel like this has been around forever. And that's the feeling that I get reading The Road.
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Gilbert Cruz: 这是一种极好的感觉。最后我想问问你有没有什么主题相关的推荐书目。
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Gilbert Cruz: It's a great feeling. I would like to close out by asking you if you had some thematic recommendations.
Ryan Holiday: 我有准备。
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Ryan Holiday: I got them.
Gilbert Cruz: 好的。首先,父亲节快到了。给我们推荐几本你认为人们应该买给他们生命中那些父亲的书吧。
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Gilbert Cruz: Okay. So, first, Father's Day is here. Give me a couple books that you think people should buy for the dads in their life.
Ryan Holiday: 如果你被作为一部育儿书的《长路》所打动,我觉得有一些综合性的育儿书籍大家可能会喜欢:Richard Reeves 的《男孩与男人》(Of Boys and Men),讲述了男性的危机以及为什么年轻男性正在苦苦挣扎。我认为 Cormac McCarthy 在他大部分书中拥护的那种传统的男子气概,确实有其积极的一面,因为它能激励男人们展现出最好的自己。所以我觉得那本书是有相关联的。我们之前在谈论实用的独立性、机智和生存技能,Steve Rinella 写了一本名叫《室内世界的户外孩子》(Outdoor Kids in an Inside World)的育儿书,我一直对它赞不绝口。书中有一句我最喜欢的话,他说:你想养育出那种不会经常说“恶心(Ew)”的孩子。你想养育出那种如果发生世界末日也能生存下去的孩子。而在偏文学的一面,我认为应该有更多人去读卡夫卡(Kafka)的《致父亲的信》(Letter to the Father)。这是一封充满告白、令人心碎且悲惨的信,是卡夫卡写给他父亲的。他一直未能与父亲契合,父亲从未真正理解他,父亲也从未理解过自己的儿子。这本书里有一种非常美丽、非常脆弱的东西,我一直很喜欢它。我还说过,就像《长路》是一本披着伪装的育儿书一样,我认为 David Epstein 的《范围》(Range)也是一本伪装的育儿书。
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Ryan Holiday: Uh I thought some parenting books generally that I thought people would love if you were struck by The Road as a kind of a a parenting book, Of Boys and Men by Richard Reeves about the sort of male uh crisis, uh why young men are struggling. There is something about sort of traditional masculinity that Cormac McCarthy embraces, I think, in most of his books that I I do think is positive in the sense that it it can inspire men to to to be the best of themselves. So, I thought that book was relevant. Um we're talking about the sort of practical independence, craftiness, uh survivability skills. Uh Steve Rinella, he wrote a a parenting book called Outdoor Kids in an Inside World that I've been raving about. And um one of my favorite lines in the book, he says like, you want to raise kids that don't say "Ew" a lot. You want kids who who'd be able to survive the world if something fell apart. On a little more literary front, I think more people should read this. This is Kafka's Letter to the Father, which is this confessional, heartbreaking, tragic letter uh that that that Kafka writes to his father who he was uh never really a fit with, never really got him, and his father never really got his son. Um there's something very beautiful and vulnerable about this book. I've always loved that. I've said that just as The Road is a parenting book in disguise, I think David Epstein's Range is a parenting book in disguise.
Gilbert Cruz: 是的。
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Gilbert Cruz: Mhm.
Ryan Holiday: 它主要讲运动员是通才还是专才,并且对比了费德勒(Roger Federer)和老虎伍兹(Tiger Woods)。
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Ryan Holiday: athletes primarily being generalists or specialists, and it contrasts Roger Federer and Tiger Woods.
Gilbert Cruz: 哦,哇。
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Gilbert Cruz: Oh, wow.
Ryan Holiday: 但是你不能谈论老虎伍兹而不去思考:这种专业化来自于他父母在非常早期做出的选择。
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Ryan Holiday: But you can't talk about Tiger Woods and not think of it and that specialization from the lens of choices that his parents made very early.
Gilbert Cruz: 没错。
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Gilbert Cruz: Mhm.
Ryan Holiday: 而且我经常和身为体育家长的朋友谈论这本书,但是任何正在试图弄清楚的家长,特别是在这样一个AI盛行的世界里,你是努力让他们在某一件事上变得非常精通,还是在这样一个充满颠覆与变化的世界中,那反而是终极的脆弱所在?然后我们刚才谈到了保持火种和做“好人”。Becky 博士的《内心向善》(Good Inside)是我送给很多爸爸以及各位父母的一本书。重点就是提醒你自己:你的孩子内心里是个好人。他们生来善良,他们本质是好的,他们正在尽最大努力,他们并没有想伤害你、把你逼疯或是谋杀你,尽管有时你可能有这样的感觉。当你从这个前提开始,就会发现我们作为父母所做的某些事、说的话和想法,那么明显是适得其反的。所以我觉得这是一本非常温馨且极其出色的书,我真的非常喜欢。
Original English
Ryan Holiday: And um I I I don't know. I I I talk about this book a lot with sports parents, but any parent who's trying to figure out, you know, especially in this world of AI, do you make do you do you try to get them really good at one thing, or is actually that the the ultimate vulnerability in a world of disruption and change? And then, um we're talking about keeping the fire and being the good guys. Uh Dr. Becky's Good Inside is a book I've given to a lot of dads and and parents across the board. You know, our point is just remembering like your kid is good inside. Like, they were born good, they are good, they are trying their best, they are not trying to hurt you or drive you insane or kill you or all the things it can sometimes feel like. And when you start from this premise, you know, it makes some of the things that we do and say and think about as a parent, you know, so obviously counterproductive. So, I thought this was a a really sweet and and wonderful wonderful book that I I really love.
Gilbert Cruz: 那些书我都还没读过。这些都是极好的推荐。我会把它们记下来的。
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Gilbert Cruz: Those are I haven't read any of those. Those are all great recommendations. I'm going to take them with me.
Ryan Holiday: 好的。
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Ryan Holiday: Okay.
Gilbert Cruz: 再说一次,你经常推荐书,你自己也开书店。想象一个人走进你的“画廊书店”说:“我刚读完《长路》,它彻底震撼了我。我接下来应该读点什么像《长路》的书,或者接下来该读什么?”
Original English
Gilbert Cruz: Again, you recommend books all the time, you own a bookstore. Imagine a person comes into the Painted Porch, says, "I just finished The Road, knocked my socks off. What should I read that's sort of like The Road, or what should I read next?"
Ryan Holiday: 好的,所以《长路》曾是奥普拉读书俱乐部的推荐书目,当年出来的时候非常受欢迎。Reese Witherspoon 的读书俱乐部大约一年前选中了《Wild Dark Shores》。这是一部关于一个家庭在气候变化摧毁世界的过程中的故事,他们在南极洲海岸外一个岛屿上的种子库里保存种子。那里的墙壁正在坍塌,世界基本上正在走向终结,只是比《长路》中少了一点末日式的暴力。然后突然之间,一个女人被冲上岸,她还活着。接下来谜团接踵而至,但这本书之所以让我想起《长路》,是因为它也蕴含着一些为人父母的教益。同样是岛上的一个单亲父亲。所以有相似之处。你读过 John Gunther 的《死神请勿骄傲》(Death Be Not Proud)吗?
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Ryan Holiday: Okay, so The Road was an Oprah Book Club pick, and it was popular when it came out. Uh Reese Witherspoon's Book Club picked Wild Dark Shores about a year ago. And this is a book about a family in the midst of a world being destroyed by climate change that is keeping seeds in a seed library on an island off the coast of Antarctica. The walls of it are caving in, the world is is is basically ending, all slightly less apocalyptically and violently as The Road. And then, all of a sudden, a woman washes up on shore alive. Mystery ensues, but a book that reminded me of The Road in that it's got some some parenting lessons. It's a single father on the on the island again. So, similar thing. Have you read Death Be Not Proud by John Gunther?
Gilbert Cruz: 嗯。
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Gilbert Cruz: Mhm.
Ryan Holiday: 好的。它也会让你崩溃痛哭。John Gunther 是 20 世纪中叶美国最著名的新闻记者之一。他的儿子,一个极其聪慧早熟、在 16 或 17 岁就准备上哈佛大学的孩子,被诊断出患有晚期脑瘤。这是一部关于他儿子为生存而战的书。你在《长路》里那个男孩身上看到的那种火焰,同样可以在这个孩子身上看到。你看到他努力让那火焰保持燃烧。他的父母也努力让它继续燃烧。这是一部非常非常美丽的书。我被它深深地打动了。如果你喜欢《长路》里的求生元素,那种关于旅程的元素以及毫不妥协的人类精神,那种绝不放弃、绝不被击垮的意志,我认为《荒野猎人》(The Revenant,电影也很棒)是一本很好的书。它改编自真实故事,讲述了一个人被灰熊袭击,被两个同伴抛弃等死。为了对他们进行复仇,他展开了一场长达数百英里的求生之旅。这是一部非常引人入胜的小说。
Original English
Ryan Holiday: Ah, okay. Will also make you break down and weep. John Gunther, one of the most famous journalists in America in the middle of the 20th century. His son, this precocious brilliant kid on his way to Harvard at like 16 or 17, gets diagnosed with a terminal brain tumor. And it is a book about his son fighting for his life. That same fire that you see in the son in the road, you see in this kid. And you see him trying to keep it alive. His parents keep it alive. It is a beautiful beautiful book. I was very moved by that. And then if you like the survivalist elements of The Road, the sort of journey element of it and the implacable sort of human spirit, the inability to quit or be killed, I thought The Revenant, which is also a good movie, is a very good one. Based on a true story about a man mauled by a grizzly bear, left to die by his two companions. And he undertakes a several hundred mile journey of survival so he can enact his revenge on them. It is a riveting novel.
Gilbert Cruz: 然后他出来时看起来就像莱昂纳多·迪卡普里奥一样。
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Gilbert Cruz: And he comes out looking like Leonardo DiCaprio.
Ryan Holiday: 是的,一点没错。
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Ryan Holiday: Yes, exactly.
Gilbert Cruz: 也是有史以来完成的最令人惊叹的壮举了。是的。Ryan Holiday,非常感谢你来到《书评》节目谈论 Cormac McCarthy 的《长路》,《纽约时报》21世纪100本最佳图书之一。这真是一次极棒的对话。
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Gilbert Cruz: impressive feat that has ever been accomplished. Yes. Ryan Holiday, thank you so much for joining The Book Review to talk about Cormac McCarthy's The Road, one of the New York Times' 100 Best Books of the 21st century. It was such a good conversation.
Ryan Holiday: 哦天哪,我太开心了。
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Ryan Holiday: Oh man, I had so much fun.
Gilbert Cruz: 我希望有一天能去参观你的书店。我真的希望能去。
Original English
Gilbert Cruz: I hope one day to visit your store. I really do.
Ryan Holiday: 我会在那里等你的。随时欢迎过来。
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Ryan Holiday: I'll I'll see you out here. Come out anytime.
Gilbert Cruz: 好的。祝你周末愉快。
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Gilbert Cruz: All right. Have a great weekend.
Ryan Holiday: 好的,再见。
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Ryan Holiday: All right. Bye.
Gilbert Cruz: [音乐] 《书评》由 Sarah Diamond, Amy Pearl 和 Patrizia Subaran 制作。 [音乐] 本期由 Tracy Mumford 剪辑,Aviva Shapiro 混音。原创音乐由 Dan Powell 和 Alicia Etop 创作。特别感谢 Dalia Haddad。[音乐] 我们想听听您对节目的看法。所以,请给我们发邮件至 thebookreview@nytimes.com。[音乐] 我是 Gilbert Cruz。感谢您的收听。
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Gilbert Cruz: [music] The Book Review is produced by Sarah Diamond, Amy Pearl, and Patrizia Subaran. [music] It's edited by Tracy Mumford and mixed this week by Aviva Shapiro. Original music by Dan Powell and Alicia Etop. Special thanks to Dalia Haddad. [music] We want to hear what you think about the show. So, send us an email at the bookreview@nytimes.com. [music] I'm Gilbert Cruz. Thanks for listening.
📌 文中提及的人物和组织
人物: Cormac McCarthy, Ryan Holiday, Gilbert Cruz, John Gunther, Franz Kafka
公司/组织: The New York Times, Santa Fe Institute
媒体/书籍: The Road, The Odyssey, The Great Gatsby, Children of Men, Of Boys and Men, Outdoor Kids in an Inside World, Letter to the Father, Range, Good Inside, Wild Dark Shores, Death Be Not Proud, The Revenant, The Plague, Meditations