节目开场与主题引入
Kyra: 大家好,我是 Kyra。本季,我们正在发布一个关于礼物的特别系列番外篇。所以,去看看我们之前的节目吧,比如上周关于送给孩子的精美礼物的节目。今天是我们系列的最后一期,我们将讨论“最后一刻礼物”。我们都曾有过这样的经历。生活有时会让你应接不暇。一年过得飞快,突然就到了节日季,你却还没准备好给某人送出的礼物。幸运的是,我们团队有一位专家可以提供帮助——Samantha Shay,我们礼品团队的高级撰稿人。Sam简直是“最后一刻礼物”方面的专家,因为她本身就是礼品方面的专家。过去一年里,她几乎每天都在研究、测试和寻找本季最棒的礼物。希望本期节目能给你带来一些缓解压力、有用的物品和想法。广告回来后,Sam将和大家聊聊她今年看到的所有能让你的亲人惊喜,又能在紧急时间内轻松购得的精选好物。马上回来。
Original English
Kyra: Hey y'all, it's Kyra. This season, we're releasing a special series of bonus episodes that's all about gifts. So, go check out our previous episodes, like last week's about great gifts for kids. Today is the last episode of our series and we're covering last minute gifts. We've all been there at some point. Life kind of just gets away from you. The year flies by and then suddenly it's the holiday season and you don't have a gift to give for a particular person. Luckily, we do have someone on staff to help. Samantha Shay, a senior staff writer on our gifting team. Sam is literally the expert on last minute gifts because she's the expert on gifts in general. And she spent almost every day of the past year researching, testing, and hunting for the best gifts of this season. Hopefully, you'll come away from this episode with items and ideas that will take some of the pressure off. After the break, Sam is going to talk about all the best items she's seen this year that will still blow away your loved ones and will be easily available in a time crunch. Be right back.
常见误区与预算考量
Kyra: 欢迎回来。今天我采访的是礼品团队的高级撰稿人 Sam Shay。Sam,欢迎来到节目。 Samantha Shay: 谢谢。很高兴来到这里。 Kyra: 很高兴你再次做客,而且我今天非常乐意和你聊这个话题,因为我正是“最后一刻送礼”的最大“罪魁祸首”之一。你认为人们在意识到“哦,时间紧迫,必须马上买点什么”时,最常陷入哪些误区? Samantha Shay: 很多时候,人们会花费比原计划多得多的钱,试图快速买到东西,以此来弥补迟到的事实,这是一种“恐慌性购买”。 Kyra: 我记得我上高中的时候,我爸爸在平安夜去商场,在一阵疯狂的恐慌中给我继母买了一台厨房用的小电视。那简直是最糟糕的礼物。事实上,他们后来婚姻也没维持多久,但……那不是原因,只是那份礼物太明显是仓促之举了。就像是“好吧,我花很多钱买点什么,这样就能弥补我没好好考虑这件事了”。所以,我认为这可能是最常见的误区。好吧,但这引出了我的下一个问题:当你最后一刻买礼物时,是否应该预期要多花点钱?因为有时你不得不为更快的运输支付额外费用,或者你想要的那件较小、不那么贵的物品可能需要太长时间才能送达。这是你应该计入预算的事情吗? Samantha Shay: 不一定。我认为“恐慌性购买”是一个很容易让你陷入的陷阱,或者“用钱解决问题”的想法。你知道,如果你有钱花,那就去买昂贵的珠宝或电子产品之类的。但我们也有一个礼品指南,比如,里面有很多可以在杂货店买到的东西。这些是非常“最后一刻”的选择,就像你正好在去某地的路上。比如,橄榄油、精美巧克力或香料,还有一瓶不错的酒。青少年可能喜欢一盒刮刮乐彩票,你知道的,就是这类最后一刻能买到的东西。所以,我不认为你一定要花更多钱。不过,如果你是在线购买,你知道,有时会涉及到运输问题,这取决于你从哪里购买。 Kyra: 明白了。我喜欢刮刮乐彩票这个主意。我太喜欢了。 Samantha Shay: 它太棒了。任何孩子……虽然技术上讲,未满 18 或 21 岁的人不能购买,但我送给过 9 岁的孩子。他们很喜欢。
Original English
Kyra: Welcome back. Today I'm talking with Sam Shay, a senior staff writer on the gifting team. Welcome to the show, Sam. Samantha Shay: Thanks. It's good to be here. Kyra: So nice to have you back and I am definitely happy to be talking to you today because I am one of the biggest culprits of last minute gift giving. What do you think are the most common pitfalls that you often see people fall into when they realize like, oh, they're on a time crunch and they have to get something now? Samantha Shay: What happens a lot of times is people spend way more than they were planning on to kind of get something quickly, make up for the fact that they're late, kind of panic buying. Kyra: I remember when I was in high school, my dad went out to the mall on Christmas Eve and bought my stepmother like a mini TV for the kitchen in a crazy panic. It was like the worst gift ever. Actually, their marriage didn't last that long after that, but um no, that wasn't why, but it was just like such an obvious panic buy. It was like, okay, I'm going to spend a lot of money on something and that'll make up for the fact that I have not thought about this. So, I think that's probably the most common pitfall. Okay, but that does lead me to my next question, which is should you kind of expect to pay a little bit more just baseline if you are buying last minute because sometimes you have to pay extra for faster shipping or maybe the smaller and less expensive thing that you want it again will take too long to get there. Is that something that you should build into your budget? Samantha Shay: Not necessarily. I think the panic buying thing is a trap you can easily fall into or the idea of throwing money at the problem. And you know, if you have the money to spend, like go ahead and drop it on super expensive jewelry or electronics or whatever. But we also have a gift guide, for example, of stuff you can buy at the grocery store. That's talking like very last minute, like you're on the way somewhere. Um, but you know, olive oil or fancy chocolate or fancy spices, uh, a nice bottle of booze. teens like a box of scratch off lottery tickets, you know, just last minute stuff like that. So, I don't think you necessarily have to spend more. Although, if you are doing it online, you know, there are shipping considerations sometimes depending on where you're getting it from. Kyra: Got it. I like that idea of the scratch off lottery tickets. Like, I would love that. Samantha Shay: It's so good. Any kid I mean technically it's not legal for people under I don't know 18, 21, but I've given them to like 9year-olds. They love it.
礼物呈现与选择
Kyra: 你有什么建议来呈现一份“最后一刻礼物”,确保它仍然显得有心意,或者说你确实为它花过心思和金钱呢? Samantha Shay: 当然。所以,别忘了包装。没有什么比一个纸袋装着的礼物更能说明“我忘了你还存在”了。你知道,包装很重要。大多数杂货店、药店都会卖礼品袋、丝带和包装纸之类的东西。所以,尽管去做吧。即使是最后一刻,也要在包装上花一点心思。另外,即使你是最后一刻才做,但送礼的规则(比如隔夜送货和订阅服务)依然适用。在按下购买按钮之前,你仍然可以仔细考虑你的礼物。不是为了吹捧我们 Wire Cutter,但我们礼品团队确实做了很多这样的思考工作,我们的礼品指南里有大量的精选礼物,我们进行了大量的筛选和搜索。所以,如果你在平安夜或者任何时候感到恐慌,从那里开始。让我们来帮助你。如果你对礼物感到不知所措,或者没有灵感,我们真的会努力为每个人找到一些合适的东西。 Kyra: 所以,你的意思是平安夜还不算太晚,来不及买一份“最后一刻礼物”?是这样吗? Samantha Shay: 我的意思是,平安夜已经太晚了。 Kyra: 我的意思是,它还不算晚。还不算晚。这是我为平安夜推荐的:如果你是线下购买,可以选择去杂货店或药店。如果是在线购买,有很多很棒的订阅服务。虽然实物在圣诞节早上可能到不了,但他们会收到一份通知,告诉你送了这份订阅服务,我认为这比礼品卡好多了,因为它们更具体,而且你确实能收到东西,而不是必须自己出去商店买。 Kyra: 是的。你最喜欢哪种? Samantha Shay: 嗯,有杂志、书籍、音乐、各种食物、手工艺品、拼图、宠物用品、儿童用品、美容产品,应有尽有。我是一个重度有声书爱好者。所以我很喜欢订阅服务,或者他们提供的 Libro FM 的积分,这是一个我使用的有声书平台。你可以送给别人,你知道的,从 1 到 10 本书供他们听。我最喜欢 Libro FM 的一点是,它支持独立书店,你可以选择你想要支持哪家书店。这样,你就可以选择你家附近的独立书店,而你或你的收礼人今后的每一次购买都会使这家书店受益。如果你有喜欢黑胶唱片的朋友,有一个非常好的黑胶订阅服务,叫做 Vinyl。你输入你的音乐偏好,他们会挑选一到三张专辑寄给你的收礼人。我亲自试了一下,“哦,看看他们在这方面做得怎么样。”他们做得太棒了。他们精准地选出了我喜欢的两张专辑,还有一张我从未听过的。所以,这是完美的组合。 Kyra: 我太喜欢了。这很有趣。而且,它再次表明你了解你赠送礼物的那个人,而不仅仅是随意挑选。 Samantha Shay: 是的。我们的网站上有大量这方面的内容,无论你的朋友喜欢什么,从他们的狗、高尔夫到旅行,你都能找到合适的订阅服务。Sam,我们现在正处于光明节期间,离圣诞节大约还有一周。这个截止日期是什么时候?什么时候它就从“最后一刻”变成“太晚了”了? Samantha Shay: 我觉得对于这两个节日来说,一旦它们结束了,就太晚了。所以,对于圣诞节,如果你计划在圣诞节后的一周内见到某人,很好,可以送礼物。但否则,那个机会就错过了。光明节也是如此。你通常只在被邀请去别人家过节时才送光明节礼物,或者如果他们是直系亲属。所以,一旦节日结束,就结束了,你得等到明年。 Kyra: 那么,有没有什么类别是你肯定会劝告人们在他们恐慌性购买时要避开的?我真的很想让人们避免在最后一刻冲动消费。 Samantha Shay: 相比于送一些他们并不真正想要的昂贵物品,不如送一张充满心意的贺卡或一盒巧克力。 Kyra: 也许是厨房电视? Samantha Shay: 对。厨房电视。没错。那么 Sam,如果你要去实体店寻找礼物,有什么实体地点推荐吗?你提到过像杂货店这样对“最后一刻礼物”很可靠的地方吗?你有什么推荐的在线平台可以快速发货吗? Samantha Shay: 再次强调,杂货店、药店、大型连锁店,你知道的,这些地方有时在圣诞节早上也会开门,但肯定在平安夜会开门,所以在现实世界里有很多选择。至于在线方面,我的意思是,Amazon 确实拯救了很多在这种情况下拖延的购物者。只是要确保它会进行隔夜送货,而且它们在节假日期间会非常忙。所以,即使他们确实提供隔夜送货,我也建议给自己至少留出两天时间,如果你要这样做的话,并且使用 Prime 账户。 Kyra: 我曾经被承诺的两天送达给坑过,结果等了一周才收到。 Samantha Shay: 还有一点,很多独立的实体店在平安夜也会开门。书店通常那天也会营业。你知道的,一些精品店、唱片店也会开门,因为它们想要你的生意,它们会在 24 号营业。所以,也可以去看看那些地方。
Original English
Kyra: What are your tips for presenting a last minute gift to make sure that it still lands as thoughtful or like you put your money into it, right? Samantha Shay: Absolutely. So, don't forget the wrapping. Nothing says I forgot you existed like a gift in a paper bag. You know, presentation means a lot. Most grocery stores, drugstores sell gift bags and ribbon and stuff like that, tissue paper. So, go for it. put a tiny bit of thought into presentation even if it's last minute. Also, just because you're doing it last minute doesn't mean that all the same rules don't apply of thoughtful gifting with overnight shipping and subscription services. You can still think carefully about your gifty before pressing the buy button. Not to toot our own horns here at Wire Cutter, but like we do a lot of this thinking for you at the gifts team and we have a ton of great gifts in our gift guide and we've done a ton of vetting and a ton of searching. So, if you're like in panic mode on Christmas Eve or whatever, start there. Like, let us help you if you're feeling overwhelmed by this and you're out of ideas, we really do try and find a little something for everyone. Kyra: So, you're saying Christmas Eve isn't too late to buy a last minute gift. Is that right? Samantha Shay: I mean, Christmas Eve is too late. Kyra: I mean, it's not. It's not. This is what I would recommend for Christmas Eve. There's the grocery store drugstore route if you're doing it in person. If you're doing it online, there's a ton of great subscription services. And while nothing physical is going to arrive at their house by Christmas morning or whatever, they'll get some sort of notification that you've gotten them this subscription service, which I think are way better than gift cards cuz they're way more specific and you actually get something rather than having to go out to the store and buy something for yourself. Kyra: Yeah. What's one of your favorites? Samantha Shay: Well, I mean there's magazines, there's books, there's music, there's food of all kinds, there's crafts, puzzles, pet stuffs, like kids stuff, beauty products, you name it. So, I'm a big audiobook fan. So, I love a subscription or the way they do it is credits to Libro FM, which is an audiobook platform that I use. Um, so you could give someone essentially, you know, from 1 to 10 books for them to listen to. And the thing I like most about Libro FM is that it benefits independent bookstores and you get to pick which bookstore you want. So, you could pick your neighborhood bookstore and every purchase that you or your recipient makes from here on out will benefit that bookstore. If you have somebody who's into vinyl, there's a really good vinyl subscription and it's actually called vinyl. And you put in your musical preferences and they'll pick out from one to three albums and send them to your recipient. And I did it as a test like, "Oh, let's see how good they are at this." And they were so good. They nailed me. It was like two albums that I loved and one album that I'd never heard of. So, perfect combination. Kyra: I love that. It's so fun. And it also again like it really shows that you know the person that you're gifting to and you're not just throwing stuff at the wall. Samantha Shay: Yeah. We have a ton on our site and there's just really like no matter what your person is into from their dog to golf to travel, you will be able to find a subscription service. So Sam, right now we're kind of in the middle of Hanukkah and we're about like a week away from Christmas. What is the cut off point? When does it become last minute to too late? Samantha Shay: I would say with both of those holidays, once they're over, it's too late. Uh, so for Christmas, if you have plans to see someone like within the week after Christmas, great, give them a gift. But otherwise, that ship is sailed. And same with Hanukkah. You really only give Hanukkah gifts if you're invited to somebody's home for the holiday um or if they're immediate family. So once the holiday is over, it's over and uh, you're going to have to wait till next year. Kyra: So are there any categories that you would definitely steer people away from when they're panic buying last minute? I just really want to steer people away from dropping a bunch of money on a last minute panic buy. Samantha Shay: It's better to give somebody a heartfelt card or a box of chocolates than some expensive thing they don't really want. Kyra: A kitchen TV, maybe. Samantha Shay: Right. Kitchen TV. Exactly. So Sam, do you have any physical locations if you're going to go try and find something in a brickandmortar store? Do you have any places you said like the grocery store that you think are pretty reliable for a last minute gift? And do you have any places online that you would say people should check for fast shipping? Samantha Shay: Again, grocery store, drugstore, big box stores, you know, those are going to be open sometimes on Christmas morning, but definitely on Christmas Eve, so there's a place in the real world. In terms of online, I mean, Amazon, you know, has really saved a lot of procrastinators in this situation. Just make sure that it is something that is going to ship overnight and they are really busy during the holidays. So, even though they do ship overnight, I would try and give yourself at least 2 days if you're going to do that and use that Prime account. Kyra: I have gotten burned by a promised two-day delivery that ended up showing up like a week late. Samantha Shay: And another thing, like a lot of independent brick-andmortar stores are also going to be open on Christmas Eve. Bookstores are generally open that day. You know, some boutiques are open, record stores, like they want your business and they'll be open on the 24th. So, check those out, too.
寻找灵感与具体推荐
Kyra: 我觉得“最后一刻送礼”的一个更广泛的主题是,我感觉有时候很难,因为要么是你已经送过了所有你能想到的礼物,觉得没有好点子了,要么就是你不确定,你不了解这个人,你对他们不够了解,这就会让你陷入拖延模式,甚至不知道从何开始。对于这两种情况,你建议人们从哪里开始才能重新获得灵感呢? Samantha Shay: 所以,你知道,为一个你不太了解的人买礼物,也许是职业关系,你个人不太了解他们。这确实是一个棘手的局面,因为你无法依靠“他们最喜欢做什么”之类的理由。虽然不存在绝对普遍的礼物,但有些礼物确实能吸引广泛人群。我认为比如橄榄油、糖果。说真的,谁会不需要一瓶优质橄榄油呢?我们有一些更普适的礼物,以及针对特定兴趣或爱好的礼物。你知道,有时候是一支蜡烛。不是每个人都喜欢,但对很多人来说,这确实是一份相当普遍的礼物。橄榄油,一瓶香槟。同样,这些礼物都不能满足每个人的确切个性和需求,但它们相当不错。 Kyra: 我太喜欢这个思路了。那么,如果你就是觉得你了解这个人,但你已经送了他们所有很酷的东西,而没别的可送了呢? Samantha Shay: 我认为这就是个性化礼物可以派上用场的地方。不过,现在我们讨论的不是“最后一刻”了。所以,如果你打算送别人个性化的礼物,你需要提前一点考虑。 Kyra: Sam,我知道你提到了这些指南,以及 Wire Cutter 的所有“最后一刻礼物指南”或者说一般的礼品指南都非常好。你能再介绍一些你特别喜欢的其他东西吗? Samantha Shay: 当然。我为 Wire Cutter 上的一款水彩颜料写过一篇赞歌,因为我太爱它们了。Kurataki Gonzi Tombi 的水彩颜料,它们从 Amazon 发货。这些是精美的、奶油质感的日本水彩颜料,适合任何有这方面爱好的人。我们还有这款很棒的小玻璃茶壶,Hario Chaa Kuso Maru 茶壶。也是日本的物品。20 美元,来自 Amazon。隔夜发货。所以,如果你有爱喝茶的朋友, Kyra: 还有我们最喜欢的 Glare Up 懒人拖鞋。它们从 Amazon 发货,而且是 Wire Cutter 的热门商品,我们的读者和员工都喜欢。大家都拥有这些,并且爱不释手。 Samantha Shay: 还有一把很棒的折叠刀。还有一把非常漂亮的 DevC Elite 雨伞。我也有这把伞。它让我感觉像弗雷德·阿斯泰尔。它永远不会坏。它能用你一生。它很贵,但可以从 Amazon 隔夜发货。而且它质量非常好。 Kyra: 听起来,那些能成为精美礼物的物品,也能成为很棒的“最后一刻礼物”。只要你给自己留出合理的时间,比如两天来收到它,你很有可能能在你的礼品指南上找到合适的东西,并能买到它,它就会成为你的“最后一刻礼物”。 Samantha Shay: 绝对。我的意思是,有了隔夜送货和我们现在所拥有的一切,一份很棒的礼物和一份“最后一刻礼物”之间没有区别。不过,尽量给自己留出两天时间。 Kyra: 最低要求。 Samantha Shay: 是的。明白了。 Kyra: 好了,非常感谢你今天的加入,Sam。非常高兴能请你来聊聊“最后一刻礼物”。 Samantha Shay: 谢谢邀请我。一直都很开心。 Kyra: 和往常一样,我们会把今天和 Sam 讨论过的所有物品链接都放在节目笔记中。你还可以在我们的网站 ny times.com/wirecutter 上找到更多礼品内容。我们甚至还有一个关于“最后一刻礼物”的指南。大家可以去看看。本期关于礼物的特别系列就到这里。非常感谢你的收听,祝大家节日快乐。
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Kyra: I think one of the broader themes of last minute gift giving, well, I don't want to overgeneralize, but I do feel like sometimes it's hard because either you've given everything that you could ever think of, and you feel like you're out of good ideas, or you're just not sure, you don't know what the person likes, you don't know enough about them, and it kind of gets you into this procrastination mode, and you don't even know where to begin. for either of those scenarios, where do you suggest people begin to kind of get the ideas rolling again? Samantha Shay: So, you know, buying a gift for somebody you don't know that well and maybe it's a professional relationship and you don't know them that well personally. I mean, that's a really tricky situation cuz you can't fall back on the like, you know, what are their favorite things to do or whatever. Although there's no such thing as an absolutely universal gift, there are some gifts that will appeal to a very broad spectrum of people. And I think like olive oil candy. Um, seriously though, I mean, who could not use a bottle of nice olive oil? We have some of those more general gifts along with the very specific interest specific or hobby specific gifts. You know, sometimes it is a candle. Not for everyone, but that is a pretty general universal gift for a lot of people. Olive oil, a bottle of champagne. Again, none of these will meet every single person's exact personality and need, but they're pretty good. Kyra: I love that. And what if you just feel like you know this person, but you've just given them everything cool and there's nothing left. Samantha Shay: I think that's a good place for personalized gifts to come in. Although now we're not talking last minute. So if you are going to give someone something personalized, you're going to have to think ahead a little bit. Kyra: So Sam, I know you've mentioned these guides and all of wire cutters last minute. Gift guides or just gift guides in general are so good. Could you tell me a couple other things that you want to highlight that you really love? Samantha Shay: Sure. I mean, I wrote a ode to these watercolor paints on wire cutter cuz I love them so much. But the Kurataki Gonzi Tombi watercolors and those ship from Amazon. They're beautiful like creamy Japanese watercolor paints for anyone who has that inclination. We have this wonderful little glass teapot, the Hario Chaa Kuso Maru teapot. Also a Japanese item. It's 20 bucks from Amazon. Ships overnight. Uh, so if you have a tea lover, Kyra: there's our favorite Glare Up slip-on slippers. Those ship from Amazon, and they are a wire cutter favorite, both from our readers and our staff. Everybody has these and loves them. Samantha Shay: There's a amazing pocket knife. There's an incredibly nice DevC Elite umbrella. I have this umbrella. It makes me feel like Fred a stair. It will never break. It will last your whole life. It's expensive, but it will ship overnight from Amazon. And it's such a quality item. Kyra: It really does sound like things that make great gifts can also make great last minute gifts. It doesn't really matter. As long as you give yourself a reasonable amount of time, maybe like 2 days to get it, the chances are you'll be able to find something on one of your gift guides and be able to buy it and it will work for your last minute gift. Samantha Shay: Absolutely. I mean, with overnight shipping and everything that we have right now, there is no difference between a great gift and a last minute gift. Try and give yourself two days, though. Kyra: Minimum. Samantha Shay: Yeah. Got it. Kyra: Well, thank you so much for joining me, Sam. It was lovely to have you on talking about last minute gifts. Samantha Shay: Thank you for having me. Always fun. Kyra: As always, we'll drop links to all the things I talked about with Sam today in the show notes. And you can find tons more gift coverage on our website, ny times.com/wirecutter. There's even a guide all about last minute gifts. Check it out. That's it for our special series about gifts. Thank you so much for listening and happy holidays.