Hello everyone, I'm Anthony. Welcome to my channel.

Today's program, let's talk about an interesting topic.

This is the deep motivation behind NTR fantasy and cuckold literature.

Just a few days ago, I discussed this topic with a netizen.

She is a researcher engaged in feminist theory, PhD in Sociology.

I recently encountered a topic, that's why NTR theme, it occupies a very important position in Japanese AV.

I think our conversation was of great quality.

So today I want to talk about this topic in depth.

Of course, I think the depth of this topic, it goes far beyond Japanese adult films, this narrow area.

It actually reflects a universal spiritual structure.

Those who are familiar with our channel know, I'm not one to make moral judgments.

If a person has such preferences and fantasies, then I don't mean to prohibit or advise.

What we are pursuing here, just to restore this mental state as realistically as possible.

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First, let’s explain the term. The so-called NTR is the abbreviation of the Japanese word "床取られ".

Literally, I was slept away.

That is what we say in Chinese, a man is cuckolded.

So NTR can also be called cuckold literature.

In this kind of story, core experiencer and pleasure gainer, Not the man and woman having sex in the story, But the partner who witnessed him, Taken away by others, The male protagonist who violated.

In Japanese adult films, NTR theme has several very classic scenes.

The most original version is that the male protagonist is an honest, Thin people.

One day his wife was suddenly taken away by a group of bad youths, Or a fierce stranger is staring at you.

They threaten the life of the man or his wife.

The male protagonist is weak because of his mental and physical weakness, Not daring to resist or failing to resist, Can only witness his girlfriend or wife being violated.

The wife resisted at first, But under coercion, I gradually got used to and adapted to it, Even start to enjoy or even become obsessed with each other.

Another classic scene is, The male protagonist is an ordinary employee of the company, Facing the risk of layoffs.

Wife to keep her husband's job, Or for the husband to be promoted smoothly in the workplace, Having to have sex with her husband's boss.

The husband had no choice but to acquiesce in despair and helplessness.

The core here is no longer the disparity in physical strength, It's the imbalance of social status and power.

In addition to the above scenarios, NTR also has a very special subspecies, It's the mother-son relationship.

The protagonist of the story, Usually a single mother and son.

In order to raise enough money for her son's high tuition, Or earn a living, Having to commit to a rich and powerful man.

For example, the principal of a school, the boss of a company, Or a rich person.

In this process, The son is always aware.

He might be hiding behind the door and watching all this, Spy on the mother's sacrifice for herself, Feeling sad, angry, humiliated, At the same time, a strong sense of excitement.

No matter how the external forms of these scenes change, There are several things in common.

First of all, the male protagonist is an absolute weakling, Whether it's physical, economic or psychological, All powerless.

He could only watch it all happen.

Secondly, the female characters in the story, Whether it's a girlfriend, wife or mother, It's all for the male lead, Sacrifice your own.

They make the male protagonist feel a, A twisted pleasure mixed with the sublime and touching.

Although women were reluctant at first, But they finally enjoyed and acquiesced.

This further highlights the male protagonist's failure, incompetence and humiliation.

Logically speaking, This should be painful for a man, Sexual fantasies of anger and humiliation, But why in these works, He became the path to excitement.

Why do many Asian men, Immersed in this fantasy.

Some might consider this preference, Due to the proliferation of Japanese AV.

But I think there's a deeper reason.

At least in China, Many men have never seen adult films before, Their sense of masculinity, has been replaced by a more grand, Pre-shaped by more everyday narratives.

AV just provides a ready-made script.

And what really makes this script, Able to be immersed in the play by a large audience, and resonate with, They have already deep in their hearts, The psychological stage has been set.

This grand narrative, It's China's nationalist propaganda.

We talk about China's nationalist propaganda, It is full of NTR plots.

About this topic, In this video from last September, Also mentioned.

That is China's history education, When describing the relationship between foreign countries and China, Extensive use of anthropomorphic metaphors of sexual assault.

By personifying the land and the nation as women, For example, Motherland, Girl, etc. Comparing hostile forces to perpetrators of sexual assault, Lose the country, Metaphor for women losing their chastity, etc.

This stimulates the audience's sense of shame.

We also focused on analyzing Fang Zhimin's articles, Lovely China.

In this article, Fang Zhimin first compared China to an elegant, Beautiful mother and, Describing her body in sexualized language.

The second role is imperialism as an aggressor.

Fang Zhimin used terrifying and exaggerated language, Imperialism, Described as a demon full of primitive bestiality, They are pure violent pleasure machines.

However, in this story, There is a third character, That is the readers and viewers.

Fang Zhimin repeatedly called out: "Friends, Look, do you see it?"

Trying to pull the reader into a helpless, Snooper's location.

That is the one in Japanese AV, The male protagonist who witnessed all this from behind the door.

Although Fang Zhimin's article, Officially defined as a patriotic text, But at the unconscious level, He secretly created a classic NTR, psychological structure.

Fang Zhimin did not preach, But through, Constructing a traumatic fantasy scenario, In the reader's heart, patriotism and mother love are combined, Combine the pleasure of voyeurism with humiliation, hatred and jealousy, Tie it up tightly.

This kind of voyeurism, In Chinese society, it is not only completely legal, Even considered noble and sacred by the government.

History Education in China, For example, various exhibitions with the theme of anti-Japanese war, Or in various anti-Japanese dramas, Exaggerating and depicting the invaders, Sexual assault on women in the country, It is an indispensable part.

However, this depiction and exposure, It's not pointing to, Empathy and understanding for the female victims themselves.

Their own stories are blurred and anonymous, Even omitted.

Focus of publicity, Focus mainly on the cruelty of the perpetrator, and details of the victimization process.

The purpose is to stimulate the audience's preset political emotions.

These women's trauma is no longer their own, It is used to ignite ethnic hatred, And the flames of revenge.

A typical case is children, Anti-Japanese War drama "Little Soldier Zhang Ga".

Tong the shopkeeper in the play, Representing the centrists in that troubled time.

In today's terms, he is a day-to-day person, a quiet person.

He plays both sides and, He thinks that as long as he is smooth enough, Just live your own life.

Therefore, although he also caters to the Japanese, But mainly to make more money.

However, In the end, the Japanese officer still violated his wife.

At the same time, two Japanese soldiers held down his body, Force him to watch.

As the intense and tragic background music sounded, This sexual assault scene, It was elevated into a moment reflecting national hatred and family feuds.

Tong the shopkeeper's spirit completely collapsed.

After this, He finally gave up his centrist illusions, But was completely forced, The revolutionary path of resisting the war to the end.

NTR Episodes, Became a booster for his character transformation.

As for his wife, In the play from beginning to end, he is a tool.

she, Just the objects of desire of men in the play.

Why, This plot has no respect for women at all.

There is another plot in the play, that is, When his wife came out of the Japanese officer's room, When I ask him for help, Tong's first reaction was to yell that she was dirty, Then walked away.

We need to know, The ratings of this drama were very high at that time, And it's largely for children.

But the TV series is about this behavior, There is no criticism.

This explains the TV series, Or China's nationalist education, Encouraged, It's actually a rather distorted masculinity.

As long as the parties are inspired to hate, Just take the revolutionary path.

As for sympathy and understanding for women, It is totally unnecessary.

therefore, Despite repeated exaggeration and emphasis by Chinese officials, comfort women, The fact of victimization, But on a practical level, This group, More as a tool to blame Japan.

Despite the high-profile commemoration of the War of Resistance Against Japanese Aggression by the government for many years, The anti-Japanese sentiment among the people is also becoming stronger and stronger, However, their own situation, Basically no one cares.

Even they were harmed by the Chinese.

The later years of Chinese comfort women are generally bleak.

Many people blamed them for not committing suicide, Why live a miserable life?

Of course, this mentality is not unique to China.

In post-World War II France, Many men, Also those women who had slept with German officers, Pulled out and paraded through the streets.

This shows, When male groups face stronger enemies, When you experience a profound sense of castration, They will turn their violence against the weaker, To make a pathological compensation, In an attempt to regain his lost male dignity.

certainly, France and Germany shortly after the war, National reconciliation was achieved.

The special thing about China is that, This kind of psychological trauma of the Chinese people, It actually has little to do with that history, But they are educated by their own country's patriotism, The result of repeated and systematic shaping.

It is in the male mind, Creates a weak, Identifying with the castrated male self.

So Chinese society also has sex education, Rather than what is generally believed, Sex is a taboo in Chinese education.

It's just that this is a very toxic sex education.

When a boy, The earliest and most profound impressions of sex and passion, Not from healthy love, But it comes from "wife and mother being violated, As a member of this nation, I can do nothing.” The grand narrative, His desire structure was distorted from the beginning.

He will unconsciously think, The strongest emotional experience is necessarily associated with power imbalance, violence, humiliation, Sacrifice and other heavy things are linked together.

In the official ideology, imperialism, The great powers are always in the hearts of Chinese men, A lingering shadow, A powerful other.

And myself, is a natural, structural loser.

He was constantly reinforced with a sense of humiliation, Low self-esteem.

But this is not a foreign import.

When they encounter similar events again in real life, For example, easy girl, That ancient trauma and stress response, It was activated instantly.

They need to, verbal abuse and slut-shaming, To cleanse the deep within my heart, The trauma of being castrated by ideology.

Of course this is futile.

As Lacan argues, The object of desire can never truly satisfy the desire itself, Because the object of desire is only a substitute.

It is ideology, Make a person think that what he wants, In the scene of easy girl, This target is those who have relationships with foreign men, Or those girls walking down the street in kimono.

Netizens believe, He is the cause of his own pain and humiliation.

Therefore, as long as you can criticize and punish the other party, One's own male dignity, It's like getting some kind of repair.

However, This is a huge misconception.

The real cause, It's the ideology that suppresses and restrains them.

It is this ideology, In their hearts, Creates a traumatic void, An anxiety that has nowhere to go.

This void, Slide from one object to another, For example, capitalists who worship foreign things and public intellectuals, etc.

No external objects, Can truly fill this fundamental lack.

Faced with this scarcity, Official ideology, or the symbolic order, In fact, it provides individuals with a seemingly correct way out.

That is to say, knowing shame and then being brave.

This is an officially recognized path to sublimation.

It calls upon the subject: The humiliation and powerlessness you feel are valid.

Now you should turn this shame into motivation, Strive for the rejuvenation of the country and the nation.

You should be a capable, A real man who meets the standards, A Chinese.

When you've done all this, Not only will you gain wealth, You will also gain the love of the opposite sex.

In this mainstream narrative, Women are like trophies, It is something that only the powerful or the powerful class can possess.

then, He also tends to imagine women as a kind of material, Money-worshipping people who constantly ask for money from him, Arrogant existence.

Follow whoever is stronger.

Therefore, he believes, My problem is that I am not strong enough.

Once you have power and wealth, You will never lack the opposite sex to like you again.

He rarely thinks, I can understand and empathize with women, To build intimacy.

Because of women's perspectives and feelings, It basically doesn't exist in this narrative.

However, many men find in reality, This path of knowing shame and then being brave, It's basically impossible.

On the one hand, The shadow of the powerful other is always lingering.

For example, the privileged class and the wealthy class in reality, Still makes them feel more depressed.

More importantly, The castrated inferior identity, Has been deeply internalized.

This led them to, Lack of confidence and motivation to become a strong person, It is easier to feel, Totally denied.

There is also a lack of understanding and trust, To gain the ability to appreciate the opposite sex.

So he might become more likely to hate women.

They are caught in a painful dilemma.

He can neither become the, The successful man, Unable to resist, Or escape from the order that constantly commands him to succeed.

This brought deeper pain and anxiety.

in this case, NTR Fantasy, It becomes an alternative compensation strategy.

I'm a little tired today, Let's stop here for now.

Next video, Let’s analyze it further, This fantasy mental structure.

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