生育治疗的成本与挑战
主持人: 治疗不孕不育需要付出经济和情感上的双重代价。你可能需要连续几周注射药物,经历各种手术,而最终结果却可能是失败。这一切加起来可能高达数万美元,前提是你负担得起继续下去。对许多安省居民来说,这遥不可及。但省政府表示正在努力改变现状。他们已经覆盖了一个周期的体外受精(IVF),并将在三年内投入2.5亿加元,以增加参与安省生育项目(Ontario fertility program)的诊所数量。
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Host: Treating infertility comes at a cost both financial and emotional. You inject yourself with drugs for weeks, go through various procedures, and at the end of all of that, it might end up in failure. And the whole thing can add up to tens of thousands of dollars. If you can afford to keep going. For a lot of Ontarians, it's out of reach. But the provincial government says it's working to change that. It already covers one cycle of in vitro fertilisation, and it's dedicating $250 million over three years to increase the number of clinics participating in the Ontario fertility program.
主持人: 没有什么角色比父母更特别或更重要,这就是为什么我们要缩短等待时间,让生育治疗对安省家庭来说更容易获得。
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Host: There is no role more special or important than being a parent, which is why we are shortening wait times to make fertility care more accessible to Ontario families.
主持人: 你也可以在报税时申报一些符合条件的费用。这一切听起来都不错,但它能带来多大的改变呢?我们将探讨安省谁能获得生育治疗,谁不能。然后,我们将与调查记者Kathryn Blaze Baum谈谈她的新书,书中记录了她个人经历不孕不育的经历,以及她对这个以高价承诺奇迹的行业所学到的东西。这里是《The Rundown》。安省政府今年将投资1亿加元,支持全省27家IVF诊所。这是他们多年计划的一部分,旨在让生育治疗更容易获得。那么,它奏效了吗?还需要做些什么?加拿大生育与男科学学会(Canadian Fertility and Andrology Society)主席Preethi Sharma医生将与我一同在演播室进行讨论。很高兴您能来。您好吗?
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Host: You can also claim some eligible expenses on your taxes. So that all sounds good, but how much of a difference will it make? We look at who can access fertility care in Ontario and who can't. Then we talk to investigative reporter Kathryn Blaze Baum about her new book, which chronicles her personal experience of infertility and what she learned about the industry that promises miracles at a price. This is The Rundown. The Ontario government will be investing $100 million this year to support 27 IVF clinics across the province. It's all part of their multi-year plan to make fertility treatment more accessible. So is it working, and what else needs to be done? Doctor Preethi Sharma is the president of the Canadian Fertility and Andrology Society, and she joins me in studio. Great to have you here. How are you doing.
Dr. Preethi Sharma: 我很好,谢谢。感谢您的邀请,也感谢您让我有机会谈论这个极其及时的话题。
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Dr. Preethi Sharma: I'm great. Thank you for having me. And thank you for allowing me to speak about this incredibly timely topic.
政府资助的生育治疗
主持人: 好的,我们来谈谈。我想更好地了解,目前的政府资助生育治疗是如何运作的?它目前涵盖哪些内容?
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Host: Well, let's talk about it. I want to better understand how does government funded fertility treatment right now? What does it cover currently?
Dr. Preethi Sharma: 安省的资助项目允许任何安省居民,持有有效OHIP卡(安省健康保险计划)的患者,接受一个周期的IVF治疗。当然,有一些规定。在符合资格时,你必须未满43岁。一个IVF周期包括卵巢刺激和取卵,以及该周期产生的可存活胚胎的所有胚胎移植。
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Dr. Preethi Sharma: So the Ontario funding program allows any patient who's a resident of Ontario and has a valid OHIP card to receive one IVF cycle. Now, there are certain stipulations. You must be under the age of 43 at the time of your eligibility. An IVF cycle includes ovarian stimulation and the egg retrieval, and all embryo transfers from viable embryos that result from that cycle.
主持人: 我猜这不包括药物或其他附加费用,对吗?
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Host: I'm assuming it does not include medications or anything that's on the side.
Dr. Preethi Sharma: 你说得对。目前不包括药物或任何附加项目,例如胚胎的基因检测。
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Dr. Preethi Sharma: You are correct. It does not include medication or any add ons, like genetic testing of embryos currently.
主持人: 就一个周期而言,它实际需要多长时间?是以日历年计算吗?一个周期通常需要多久?
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Host: In terms of a cycle, how long does that actually is it or is it measured in a calendar year? How long is typically a cycle?
Dr. Preethi Sharma: 是的。一个IVF周期通常需要大约两周。你在周期开始时进行卵巢刺激,通常在第2或第3天。服用注射药物约10到12天,然后进行镇静下的取卵,之后进行新鲜胚胎移植或冷冻胚胎移植。
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Dr. Preethi Sharma: Yeah. An IVF cycle typically takes about two weeks. You start ovarian stimulation at the beginning of your cycle, typically on day 2 or 3. Take medications that are injectable for about 10 to 12 days, followed by an egg retrieval under sedation and either a fresh transfer or a frozen embryo transfer at a subsequent time.
生育治疗税收抵免
主持人: 好的,我们来谈谈一些支持措施。安省政府去年推出了生育治疗税收抵免(fertility treatment tax credit),以帮助支付这些药物和附加费用。哪些项目不被覆盖,这个税收抵免又支持哪些方面呢?
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Host: All right, let's talk about some supports there. The Ontario government introduced the fertility treatment tax credit last year to help with these medications and the add on costs. What isn't covered and what is it supporting?
Dr. Preethi Sharma: 正如你所说,药物不被覆盖。胚胎的基因检测也不被覆盖。以及捐赠配子(精子或卵子)的购买也不被覆盖。这些对患者来说是巨大的开销,可能高达七万、十万,甚至二十万加元。所以,安省生育治疗税收抵免就成为了对患者非常有益的补充。他们可以申报高达5,000加元的费用,每年最高可获得5,000加元的抵免。这确实有助于减轻费用负担。
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Dr. Preethi Sharma: So as you said, medication is not covered. Genetic testing of embryos is not covered. And the purchase of donor gametes, sperm or eggs is not covered. And so these are significant costs to patients that can be up to seven, ten even up to $20,000. So this is where the Ontario Fertility treatment tax credit has become really complimentary and helpful for patients. They can claim up to $5,000 expenses, $20,000 of expenses for a maximum of a $5,000 credit annually. And so it really does help defray the costs.
新的政府资金投入
主持人: 好的。现在,安省政府宣布了一项新的1亿加元资金投入。这主要是为了提高可及性和可负担性。这具体是如何解决问题的呢?
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Host: All right. Now, the Ontario government announced a new $100 million in funding. This is really about access and affordability. How does that actually fix it?
Dr. Preethi Sharma: 首先,我们要赞扬安省政府的这项重大投资。生育治疗确实是医疗保健的一部分,我们非常高兴看到这项投资有助于建立家庭。今年首批投入的5000万加元覆盖了约5000个额外的周期。这非常了不起,因为许多原本无法获得高质量生育治疗的安省居民,或者需要等待长达两年的居民,现在可以在几个月内,甚至立即获得治疗。每年还将投入1亿加元,总计三年2.5亿加元。你可以想象,这大约能增加10,000个IVF周期。因此,许多安省居民将能够获得他们所需的生育治疗。
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Dr. Preethi Sharma: Well, first of all, we'd like to applaud the Ontario government for this significant investment. Fertility care is truly health care, and we're just so happy to see this investment in helping build families. So the first 50 million that was given this year covers about 5000 additional cycles. That's really incredible because many Ontarians who could otherwise not access high quality fertility care or would have to be on waitlists for up to two years, are now accessing care within a couple of months, if not immediately, there'll be another 100 million deployed each year, for a total of $250 million over three years. So you can imagine that's almost an additional 10,000 IVF cycles. And so many Ontarians are going to be able to access the fertility care they need.
主持人: 您说许多安省居民,您能给我们一个大概的数字吗?有多少家庭和个人在使用体外受精?
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Host: You say many Ontarians, do you ever can you give us an idea of how many families are using and people are using in vitro fertilisation?
Dr. Preethi Sharma: 我认为数据显示有超过10万人正在使用。但当我们谈论生育领域时,我们知道女性因为经济担忧、寻找合适伴侣、希望经济稳定等原因而推迟生育。所以初次怀孕的年龄正在增加。因此,需要IVF来组建家庭的人数正在增长。LGBTQ+群体也在稳步增长,他们有独特的生育需求。通常他们需要卵子捐赠者、精子捐赠者或代孕者,而这只能通过IVF获得。
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Dr. Preethi Sharma: I mean, I think the data shows over 100,000 people are using it. But when we talk about the fertility landscape, we know that women are delaying their fertility due to economic concerns, finding the right person, wanting to be financially stable. And so the age at first pregnancy is increasing. So that number of people who need IVF to build their families is growing. The LGBTQ plus population is growing steadily, and they have unique fertility needs. Often they need an egg donor or a sperm donor or a surrogate, and this is only accessible through IVF.
地域可及性挑战
主持人: 好的,我们来谈谈可及性。安省地域很广阔,是吧?就诊所而言,还有两家新诊所将在Brampton和Oakville建成。但大部分集中在安省西南部。那么,在这个省的北部社区,可及性如何呢?
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Host: All right, let's pick up on access. Ontario is pretty large. Yes. In terms of there are two new clinics also that are going to be built Brampton, Oakville. A lot of it is concentrated in southwestern Ontario. What is access look like in sort of northern communities in this province?
Dr. Preethi Sharma: 是的,这是一个很好的问题,加拿大生育与男科学学会(CFAS)很乐意与政府合作,以增加北部社区的可及性。政府的使命确实在那里,他们希望帮助这些患者。所以我们非常感激。但你说得对。住在Timmins的患者与住在多伦多市中心的患者非常不同。他们的就医机会取决于他们的邮政编码。住在多伦多的患者可能有15到20家诊所可供选择,而住在Timmins的患者则面临大量的差旅费用、监测、诊断测试。他们可能需要去多伦多10到15次,这可能花费2000到3000加元才能完成一个周期。那么,未来会怎样呢?我们认为这是一个改进的机会。如果我们能建立一个“中心辐射”模式,在安省北部设立卫星监测中心。在我理想的世界里,我希望看到一个独立的、全方位服务的IVF中心,覆盖北部地区,这样患者甚至不必离开他们所在的社区,因为我们知道成本可能很高。因此,我们希望未来政府能考虑资助或帮助诊所建立卫星诊所,建立IVF中心,讨论所需的基础设施,讨论劳动力和我们需要的战略,以便能够充实这些诊所,从而实现地域公平。
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Dr. Preethi Sharma: Yeah, this is a great question, and Cfas would love to partner with the government. That's the Canadian Fertility and Andrology Society to help increase access in the northern communities. Now, the mandate of the government is truly there. They want to help these patients. So we really appreciate that. But you're absolutely right. A patient who lives in Timmins is very different from a patient who lives in downtown Toronto. Their access is dependent on their postal code. The patient who lives in Toronto probably has 15, 20 clinics to choose from, whereas the patient who lives in Timmins has lots of travel costs monitoring, diagnostic testing. They might need to make 10 to 15 trips to Toronto, which can cost upwards of 2 to $3000 in order to complete their cycle. And so what does that look like in the future? We see this as an opportunity for improvement. If we could build a hub and spoke model where we could have satellite monitoring centres in northern Ontario, in my dream world, I'd love to see a free standing, full service IVF centre that covers the northern region so that patients would not even have to leave that community, because we know that cost can be significant. So we ask that in the future, the government look into potentially helping fund or helping clinics build satellite clinics, build an IVF centre, talk about what infrastructure is needed, talk about the workforce and the strategy that we need to be able to populate those clinics so that we can service and allow geographic equity.
标准化与数据驱动的未来
主持人: 好的,我们展望未来。政府的资金旨在到2028年实现护理标准化。这具体意味着什么?
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Host: Well, let's look into the future. The funding from the government says it's meant to standardise care by 2028. What does that actually mean?
Dr. Preethi Sharma: 是的。最终,我们希望患者获得最高质量的医疗保健,尤其是在生育领域。因此,标准化可以涉及多个层面。所有诊所都将被要求将其资助周期的结果报告给Carter数据库。这是我们用于汇总全国所有周期结果的国家数据库。我们理想情况下会利用这些数据来改进我们提供护理的方式,这是基于证据的。在2025年8月,我们实际上向联邦政府提交了一项关于泛加拿大国家数据库的提案。原因在于,数据指标对于我们提供更高质量的护理至关重要。我们希望能够恰当地分析这些数据,并为未来制定基于证据的建议。所有诊所还需要参与Accreditation Canada(加拿大认证机构)的认证,并必须在2028年前获得认证。这包括什么?这关注患者安全、治疗周期的结果、财务稳定性、诊所治理、感染控制。再次强调,这是为了给我们的患者提供高质量、一流的护理。
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Dr. Preethi Sharma: Yes. Well, ultimately, we want the patients to receive the highest quality health care that's available, especially in the fertility space. And so standardisation can involve multiple levels. All the clinics will be required to report their funded cycle outcomes to the Carter database. This is our aggregate national database that looks at all cycles outcomes. And we use this data ideally to make improvements in the way we deliver care. That's based on evidence. In August of 2025, we actually submitted a proposal to the federal government for a pan-Canadian national database. And the reason why is data metrics are important to allow us to deliver higher quality care. We want to be able to Analyze that data appropriately. We want to create evidence based recommendations for the future. All the clinics also need to participate in Accreditation Canada, and they need to be accredited by 2028. What does this look at? This looks at patient safety outcomes of treatment cycles, financial stability, governance of clinics, infection control. And again, this is to deliver high quality best in class care to our patients.
主持人: 好的,我们有了数据,有了未来在北部的潜在更好基础设施。还有什么能帮助安省居民获得这种治疗呢?
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Host: All right. So we've got data. We've got potentially better infrastructure in the north. What else is needed to help Ontarians access this kind of treatment?
Dr. Preethi Sharma: 我认为全面覆盖非常重要。正如我们所说,药物费用很高。有些患者有药物保险,但大多数低收入家庭没有。PGT-A,即胚胎植入前遗传学筛查(preimplantation genetic testing for aneuploidy),用于选择具有正常基因的胚胎,并允许我们进行选择性单胚胎移植,以获得最高的成功率。
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Dr. Preethi Sharma: I think full coverage is really important. As we said, medication costs are significant. Some patients have a drug plan, but most low income families don't. Pgt-a, which is preimplantation genetic testing for aneuploidy, looks to choose the embryo that has normal genetics and allows us to do elective single embryo transfers with the highest success rates.
主持人: Sharma医生,我们就谈到这里。这次访谈非常有启发性。非常感谢您的时间。
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Host: Doctor Sharma, we are going to leave it there. This was really insightful. Thank you so much for your time.
Dr. Preethi Sharma: 非常感谢您的邀请。
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Dr. Preethi Sharma: Thank you so much for having me.
个人生育之旅与行业内幕
主持人: 当调查记者Kathryn Blaze Baum想再要一个孩子时,她最终转向了IVF和代孕,开始了一段充满希望、心碎和数十万加元花费的旅程。《The Rundown》制作人Carla Lucchetta坐下来与她谈论了她的新书《不孕不育:一个奇迹的故事以及背后的巨大商业》(Infertility: The Story of a Miracle and the Big Business Behind It)。在此提醒观众,本次采访将讨论流产。
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Host: When investigative journalists Kathryn Blaze Baum wanted to have another child, she ended up turning to IVF and surrogacy, starting a journey of hope, heartbreak and hundreds of thousands of dollars run down. Producer Carla Lucchetta sat down to talk to her about her new book, Infertility The Story of a Miracle and the Big Business Behind It, and a content warning for our viewers. This interview involves a discussion of miscarriage.
Kathryn Blaze Baum: 我带着完全错误的心态开始IVF。我完全不知道这将给我带来多大的身体上的折磨。
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Kathryn Blaze Baum: I went into IVF with the total wrong mindset. I had no idea the physical toll that this was going to take on me.
主持人: Catherine,感谢您今天在家中接受采访。能否简要描述一下您的生育历程?
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Host: Catherine, thanks for having us to your home today. Briefly describe your fertility journey for us.
Kathryn Blaze Baum: 我们的女儿Sydney是自然怀孕的,相对容易,孕期也很顺利。但给她添个弟弟妹妹就遇到了麻烦,几乎是不可能的。我们经历了多次流产、子宫手术,最终转向了IVF。这个过程一点也不顺利。历时多年,包括多次取卵、胚胎移植,最终转向了代孕。最终,我们非常幸运地走到了终点,不仅为女儿Sydney添了一个弟弟,还添了两个。我们最终有了两个男婴,相隔四个月出生,一个通过代孕,另一个则意外地由我怀孕。
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Kathryn Blaze Baum: So our daughter Sydney was naturally conceived, relatively easy to make, straightforward pregnancy. Giving her a sibling is where we ran into trouble and it was near impossible. So we had multiple miscarriages, uterine surgeries ultimately turned to IVF and through that process was not straightforward whatsoever. And it was years long involved multiple retreat egg retrievals. Embryo transfers ultimately be turned to surrogacy. And in the end, we were very fortunate that we did come out the other side with not just one sibling for our daughter Sydney, but two. So we ended up with two baby boys born four months apart, one via surrogacy and the other unexpectedly via me.
主持人: 这太棒了。为什么您想在您的书《不孕不育》中写下这一切?
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Host: That's wonderful. Why did you want to write about this in your book called infertility?
Kathryn Blaze Baum: 我是一名记者,一名调查记者。我做了近二十年的这类工作。所以,在我经历这个令人头晕目眩、完全耗费心神的经历时,我会躺在检查台上,抬头看着诊所的天花板,对自己说:“有一天,我要写下这一切。”我当时不知道具体会以什么形式,但我对周围发生的一切、事情为何如此都有很多疑问。我意识到我想写一本在我经历代孕时希望自己能读到的书。我希望它既深刻个人化,又经过深入报道。所以,它是部分回忆录,部分新闻报道。
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Kathryn Blaze Baum: So I'm a journalist, I'm an investigative reporter. I've been doing that kind of work for the better part of two decades. So while I was going through this head spinning, totally consuming experience, I would lie on the exam table and sort of look up at the clinic ceiling and think to myself, you know, one day I'm going to write about all of this. And I didn't know exactly what form it would take, but I just had so many questions about what was going on around me, why things were the way that they were, and I realised that I wanted to write the book that I wish I had when I was going through surrogacy. I wanted it to be deeply personal and deeply reported. So it's part memoir and part journalism.
主持人: 我对您采访了第一位试管婴儿Louise Brown感到非常好奇。她有什么发现?您从与她的谈话中学到了什么吗?
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Host: I was really interested that you interviewed the first test tube baby, Louise Brown. What were her revelations? Did you get any revelations from anything you spoke to her about?
Kathryn Blaze Baum: 我觉得这非常有趣,因为它感觉就像一个时间切片,或者说一个时光机。她出生在20世纪70年代末的英国Oldham。听到她讲述自己是如何得知自己是“世界上第一个IVF婴儿”,以及在她真正理解这件事时,它已经出现在教科书里,并在课堂上被教授。我觉得这非常有趣。有一件事真正引起了我的共鸣,这也是我将其写进书中的原因:她解释说,她的父母被医生告知,他们怀孕的可能性只有“百万分之一”。很多人听到这个会觉得概率非常低。但她的母亲听到的是:“有希望。”所以我认为这非常能说明一个极度渴望某事的人的心态。
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Kathryn Blaze Baum: I just thought it was so interesting because it felt sort of like this snapshot in time or like a time machine, I guess, where she was born in the late 1970s in Oldham, in England. And just hearing her sort of talk about how she learned that she was sort of the world's first IVF baby, and the fact that sort of by the time she really understood it, she was already in textbooks and she was sort of being taught it in the classroom. I thought that was really interesting. And one thing that really resonated with me, and it's why I included it in the book, was she explained that her mother and her father had been told by doctors that, you know, they had a I think she said, you know, a 1 in 1,000,000 chance that she might be able to get pregnant. And many people would hear that as a very low probability. And what her mom heard was there's a chance. And so I thought that was just very indicative about the mindset of somebody who wants this so badly.
IVF旅程的可及性障碍
主持人: 可及性如何影响一个人开始IVF旅程的能力?
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Host: How does access affect a person's ability to start their IVF journey?
Kathryn Blaze Baum: 我认为在谈论可及性时,有几点需要讨论。首先,我们应该谈论的是经济可及性。IVF非常昂贵。大约需要1.5万到2万加元。根据药物和方案以及是否使用任何附加治疗,费用可能会略低或更高。但它非常昂贵。而且,我认为人们也很重要地知道,它通常第一次不会成功。所以那2万加元很快就会变成4万。如果你能负担得起并凑齐,它还会继续增加。是的,有些省份和地区提供一些资金来帮助人们度过生育之旅。但没有一个省份或地区能够完全资助。我们还应该谈论的是地域可及性。我认为人们会惊讶地发现,有些省份和地区没有一家IVF诊所能够进行取卵或胚胎移植的复杂工作。你必须坐飞机或开车。而这些是非常复杂的治疗,必须与你的生理周期同步。所以非常不可预测。因此,你叠加了经济因素、地域可及性,然后,还有等待名单,对吧?如果你进行自费周期,通常可以安排诊所咨询。但如果你试图通过公共资助流程,就会有等待名单,可能长达数月,甚至数年。这与生育领域的一切都背道而驰,我们被不断告知时间至关重要。
Original English
Kathryn Blaze Baum: I think there's a few things to talk about when we talk about access. Obviously, the first thing that we should talk about is financial access. IVF is expensive. It's somewhere in the order of 15 to $20,000. It can be a little bit less. It can be more depending on the medications and the protocols and whether you avail yourself of any sort of add on treatments. But it's very expensive. And I think it's also very important for people to know that it doesn't typically work the first time. So that $20,000 can quickly become 40. If you can afford it and scrounge it together, it can escalate beyond that as well. And so, you know, yes, there are some provinces and territories that offer some amount of funding to help support people through a fertility journey. But it's not there's not a single province or territory that funds it entirely. The other thing that we should talk about is geographic access. I think people will be surprised to know that there are some provinces and territories that don't have a single IVF clinic that does the complicated work of an egg retrieval or an embryo transfer. You have to get on a plane or drive. And these are very complicated treatments that have to be timed to your cycle. So it's very unpredictable. So you're layering on the finances, geographic access, and then, you know, there's waitlists too, right? Like if you're doing a private pay cycle, you can usually get in for a clinic consultation. But if you're trying to go through sort of the public funding process, there's a waitlist and they can be months long, they can be years long. And that goes against everything in fertility, where we're told constantly that time is of the essence.
IVF的身体与情感代价
主持人: 考虑到个体差异,这对您造成了怎样的身体上的影响?我指的是您曾有急诊室就诊经历,在五次取卵过程中经历了非常艰难的身体时刻。能稍微谈谈它对您造成的身体负担吗?
Original English
Host: Understanding that it varies individually. What was the physical toll for you? I mean, you had E.R. visits. You had very difficult physical moments throughout five retrievals. Tell me a little bit about the toll it took on you.
Kathryn Blaze Baum: 我带着完全错误的心态开始IVF。我完全不知道这将给我带来多大的身体上的折磨。这与情感上的折磨、经济上的折磨、对人际关系的影响是分开的。身体上,非常艰难。我属于对药物反应很好的人,这也是你想要的。我会有50个卵泡生长。他们会从我体内取出30多个卵子。这就是你想要的。因为卵子越多,成功的几率就越高。这也意味着我在取卵过程中出现了并发症,我体内会积聚液体,腹部会肿胀,非常糟糕,因为看起来像怀孕了。而你想要的正是怀孕。我穿不了裤子,我感到疲惫,头痛欲裂,头晕目眩。在过程中有几次,由于药物的作用,我晕倒了,包括有一次我在半夜醒来时发现自己躺在浴室地板上,到处是血。然后我开始呕吐,休克,最终被送往医院,脸部缝了11针。你可能会认为那是谷底了。但我又做了一次。我又进行了一次取卵,又晕倒了。救护车赶来,因为我的血压非常低,你知道,对有些人来说,这可能很顺利,不会造成如此大的影响。但我的书采访了很多人,我也为这本书读了很多资料,我了解到,告诉人们取卵当天可以休息,第二天就能回去工作,这对很多人来说是不真实的。我认为我们没有准确地告知人们它实际感受如何。
Original English
Kathryn Blaze Baum: I went into IVF with the total wrong mindset. I had no idea the physical toll that this was going to take on me. This is separate from the emotional toll, the financial toll, the toll on relationships. Physically, it was very difficult. I am somebody who responded very well to the medications, which is what you want. I would have 50 follicles growing. They would remove 30 some odd eggs from my body. That's that's what you want. Because the more eggs you have, the higher the chances are that you're going to be successful. What it also meant was that I had complications from retrievals where I would, you know, fill up with fluid and I would have like this bloating where I would, it was horrible because you would look really pregnant. And that's all you're wanting is to be pregnant. Like, I couldn't wear pants, I was tired, I had excruciating headaches, I would get dizzy. There were a couple of times where during the process, due to the medications, I fainted, including one time where I woke up on the bathroom floor in the middle of the night with blood everywhere. And then I started vomiting, went into shock, ended up in the hospital needing 11 stitches in my face. And you would think that that would be some sort of rock bottom. But I did it again. And I did another retrieval and I fainted again. And the paramedics came because my blood pressure was so, you know, it's for some people, it can be straightforward. It can have not such a dramatic toll. But I interviewed people for this book and I've read a lot for this book, and I have learned that being told that you should take the day off of work to do your egg retrieval, but you can go back to work the next day isn't true for a lot of people. And I think we're not calibrating people's expectations about what it feels like.
主持人: 您还经历了一些需要手术的并发症。能稍微谈谈吗?
Original English
Host: And you had some complications also that required surgery. Can you talk a little bit about that?
Kathryn Blaze Baum: 在我们开始为女儿Sydney添弟弟妹妹的旅程时,我经历了一次流产,这次流产导致需要进行D&C(刮宫术)来清除体内残留的妊娠组织,我的身体难以自行排出。当时我并不知道,但理论上,也是我的医生认为,通过这次D&C手术,刮擦过程导致我的子宫内形成了疤痕组织,而子宫内的疤痕组织可能是我之后流产的原因,因为它会影响着床。所以我最终接受了两次子宫手术来修复子宫内的疤痕组织。
Original English
Kathryn Blaze Baum: I had a miscarriage when we were beginning our journey to give our daughter, Sydney, a sibling, and that miscarriage resulted in the need for a D and C, which is a dilation and curettage procedure to remove some retained tissues of pregnancy that my body was having trouble sort of naturally expelling, and I didn't know it at the time. But the theory is, and my doctors believe that through that D and C, there's the scraping that I had developed scar tissue in my uterus, and that the scar tissue in my uterus was actually potentially responsible for the miscarriages that I had afterward, because it can interfere with implantation. So I did end up needing uterine surgery twice to try to repair the scar tissue in my uterus.
主持人: 您在身体上经历了这么多。那么,它在精神和心理上对您造成了怎样的影响?您被IVF所困。
Original English
Host: You've been through a lot physically. So talk a little bit about the toll it took on you mentally and psychologically as well, that you were in this grip of IVF.
Kathryn Blaze Baum: 对我以及我为这本书采访的许多患者来说,IVF非常耗费心神。对许多人来说,这是一场为生命而战的生存之战,字面意义上的。它会变得非常消耗人。它会完全占据你的思想。它会占据你的白天,占据你的日程表,让你的日程表变成一个雷区,因为你不知道,朋友的婴儿洗礼派对时你是否会怀孕?或者你会流产吗?或者一次失败的移植会让你心碎吗?它真的是你生活的背景噪音,我就是这样描述它的。
Original English
Kathryn Blaze Baum: IVF for me and for many of the patients that I interviewed for the book is very consuming. It is, for many people, an existential fight for like for life, literally. And it can become just very consuming. And it takes over your mind entirely. It takes over your days, it takes over your calendars, it makes your calendar a landmine because you know, are you going to be pregnant at this friend's baby shower? Or are you going to be miscarrying? Or are you going to be devastated by a transfer that didn't work? It it's really the white noise of your life is the way I sort of describe it.
主持人: 以及它对人际关系造成的损害。比如,与那些能够轻松怀孕的家人、朋友或同事相比,当您无法怀孕时,是什么样的感受?
Original English
Host: And the toll it takes on relationships. For instance, with either family members or friends or colleagues that are having babies when you're not able to get pregnant. What was that like?
Kathryn Blaze Baum: 是的,我认为在某些情况下,这对人际关系会造成严重的损害。当然,它们也可能得到加强,因为你会发现人们以非常美好的方式支持你,让你感到被支持。它也可能在你与那些更容易怀孕的朋友、家人或亲戚之间造成相当大的距离,他们可能不够敏感地对待你的经历,或者你仅仅因为他们的存在就被触发。所以,你知道,这会让人非常孤立。人们常常不知道如何与你谈论这件事。你也不知道你想听什么或说什么。这也是我写这本书的原因之一,我希望人们有一个地方,可以让他们在那里处理一些他们正在经历的情感创伤、不确定性,让他们感到被看见和被支持,而无需总是向亲人解释一切。
Original English
Kathryn Blaze Baum: Yeah, there's there's a serious toll, I think, on relationships that can happen in some cases. Of course, they can be strengthened because you find that people show up for you in these beautiful ways and you feel really supported. It can also cause a fair amount of distance between yourself and friends or siblings or relatives who are having an easier time and who maybe aren't being super sensitive to what you're going through, or you're just triggered by their very existence. And so, you know, it can be very isolating. Oftentimes people don't know how to talk to you about it. You don't really know what you want to hear or what you want to say. And that's part of the reason I wrote the book, is I wanted people to have a place where they can sort of work through some of these emotional sort of trauma that they're going through, this uncertainty that they're going through in a way that has them feel seen and supported, but not necessarily having to explain everything all the time to a loved one.
主持人: 我觉得这有点像悲伤,对吧?当亲人去世时,人们不知道该对你说什么。在很多方面,生育之旅就是一系列的悲伤,不是吗?
Original English
Host: I think it's a little bit like grief, right? People don't know what to say to you when you're grieving the loss of a loved one. In many ways, the fertility journey is a series of grieving, is it not?
Kathryn Blaze Baum: 我认为你说得对。在我看来,我确实经历了很多悲伤。有未能实现我所设想的家庭的悲伤,你为无法达到你认为自己会达到的目标而悲伤。但也有更具体的悲伤,比如你去做超声波检查,看到了心跳,你拿着B超照片,你把手放在肚子上,你感受到了身体的变化。那些细胞已经变成了某个人。所以当你失去一个胎儿时,我觉得我失去了一个婴儿。而且,以如此血腥、如此生理化的方式去经历这一切,是完全压倒性的。这很艰难,因为有情感上的损失。但同时,你的身体也在发生着生理上的变化,你对身体关闭妊娠感到愤怒,你对为什么又发生在我身上感到沮丧。我认为,我们现在谈论得更多了,但这种情况非常普遍,对吧?据估计,四分之一的女性经历过流产。我觉得IVF之旅中有很多悲伤。有时是沿途的小事,有时是大事。我采访过经历过死产的女性,这简直难以想象。
Original English
Kathryn Blaze Baum: I think that's I think that's right. In my case, I did feel a lot of grief along the way. There was the grief of not making your way to the family that you envisioned and sort of your grieving this, this inability to get to where you thought you were going to be. But then there's like the more sort of tangible grief of, you've gone to an ultrasound, you've seen the heartbeat, you've held the sonogram image, you've put the hand on your tummy, you've felt the changes in your body. Those cells have become somebody to you. And so when you lose a pregnancy, I felt like I was losing a baby. And it is it was completely overwhelming to move through that in such a gory way, oftentimes and in such a physical way. It's a lot because there's the emotional loss. But then there's also this physical thing that's happening to you, and you're angry at your body for shutting down a pregnancy, and you're frustrated that, why is this happening to me again? And I think, you know, we talk about it more now, but it happens so frequently, right? Like 1 in 4 women, it's estimated experience miscarriage. And I feel like there is a lot of grief that happens in an IVF journey. And it's sometimes it's these smaller things along the way. And sometimes it's these big things. You know, I spoke with women who had stillborns and it's unfathomable.
代孕与意外怀孕
主持人: 当您的旅程继续,到了寻找代孕者的时候,您是如何过渡的?
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Host: And when your journey went along and you came to the part where you were looking for a surrogate, how did you make that transition?
Kathryn Blaze Baum: 我认为对我们来说,我在书中也写到了,在我们把注意力转向可能要经历代孕之旅时,我仍然希望最终能由我来怀孕并保住孩子。所以我觉得这是一个开始考虑代孕的好时机,因为我可以以一种不那么情绪化的方式来处理,比如与代孕机构进行咨询电话,了解流程。然后,当真正开始这段旅程时,我已经对自己的身体失去了很多信任,我知道我们需要帮助。它从一种可怕的事情,你正在放弃控制,变成了一个充满希望的途径,我知道这实际上可能非常美好。当我们开始与一位潜在的代孕者Stacy通话时,我立刻就感到一种如释重负,心想:“好吧,我想我能做到,我想我们能做到。”这是一种美妙的感觉,我能够信任她。最终是我们的第二位代孕者,因为这是一个非常复杂的旅程,她们给了我们充分的理由去信任她们。
Original English
Kathryn Blaze Baum: So I think for us, and I write about this, that at the point in our journey where we turned our attention to potentially going through a surrogacy journey, I was still hopeful that in the end, I was actually going to be the one that was going to get pregnant and stay pregnant. And so I think it was a good time actually, to start thinking about that, because I was able to sort of move through it in maybe a less emotional way, sort of having the consultation calls with the surrogacy agencies and understanding the process. And then when it came time to actually embark on that journey, I had lost so much trust in my own body that I knew that we needed help. And it turned from this kind of sort of scary thing where you're relinquishing control to this hopeful avenue that I knew could actually be quite beautiful. And once we got on the phone with a potential surrogate named Stacy, I could tell right away that I just had this, like, relief go through me that, okay, you know, I think I think I can do this, I think we can do this. And it was this wonderful thing where I was able to trust her. And ultimately our second surrogate, because it was a very complicated journey to do this, because they gave us every reason to trust them.
主持人: 我很想听听,当您发现自己意外自然怀孕时,那是在您第二位代孕者怀孕三个月后。
Original English
Host: I just would love to hear how it was for you when you found out you were naturally pregnant after, you know, three months of your second surrogate's pregnancy.
Kathryn Blaze Baum: 我们的代孕者Kendra,愿她安好,当时怀孕大约20周。那时我感觉不太舒服,恶心、疲惫,皮肤也有些变化,我以为是身体出了什么问题。但我记得我告诉丈夫:“如果我不知道内情,我会以为我怀孕了。”但出于多种原因,主要是我的子宫近年来一直不太适合怀孕,我们没觉得是这种情况。但那天下午我实在太恶心了,就验了孕。还没来得及盖上那个粉色的小盖子,我就看到了两条线,我的大脑无法理解发生了什么。所以我叫来丈夫,我说:“快过来,快过来,快过来。”把验孕棒递给他。他说:“这是什么?”用了更粗俗的语言。我忍不住大笑起来,因为这太滑稽、太荒谬、太不可思议了,在我们经历了所有这一切,终于走上了与一位怀孕20周的代孕者相对顺利的旅程时,我竟然也怀孕了。我们算了算,我大概怀孕七周。直到我们去生育诊所,在超声波上看到那闪烁的心跳时,我才敢相信这可能是真的,因为我们经历过太多次失去。作为一个经历过流产的人,我想我能代表很多女性说话,你不再相信验孕棒了,你也不敢让自己去想这件事。你不敢让自己感到兴奋。过了好几周,我们才真正相信这是真的,这是正在发生的。随着怀孕的进展,我们说:“这是真的。”我们感到非常喜悦,因为我们想要很多孩子。
Original English
Kathryn Blaze Baum: So our surrogate Kendra, bless her, was around, you know, 20 ish weeks pregnant. And at that time, I was thinking like, I'm not feeling well. I was nauseous and tired and my skin was kind of having these changes that I thought were maybe indicative of something going on in my body. But I remember saying to my husband, like, if I didn't know any better, I would think maybe I was pregnant. But for many reasons, you know, chief among them, the fact that my uterus had not been particularly hospitable in recent years, we didn't think that that was the case. But I was so nauseous one afternoon that I did take a pregnancy test. And before I could even put the, like, little pink cap back on, I looked down and there were two lines and I was just my brain like, could not compute what was happening. And so I called my husband and I'm like, come here, come here, come here, hand him the test. And he's like, what is this? Using much more colourful language. And I just sort of burst out laughing because it seemed so like comical and nonsensical and unbelievable to me that after everything that we had been through, when we were finally on this sort of straight line of a journey with a surrogate that was 20 weeks pregnant, that all of a sudden I too was pregnant. And we did the math and we realised I was about seven weeks. And so it wasn't until we went into the fertility clinic and actually saw on the ultrasound the flickering heartbeat, that I let myself think that this might actually be real, because we'd had so many losses. And as somebody who had been through miscarriage, and I think I can speak for a lot of women who have, you don't really trust the pregnancy test anymore, and you don't really let yourself go to that place. You don't really let yourself feel excited. And it took a while, like many weeks, for us to actually believe that this was real, that this was happening. And as the pregnancy went on, we were like, this is real. And we were so joyful because I, we wanted we wanted lots of kids.
IVF营销与公众认知
主持人: 您认为IVF如何能从目前围绕围绝经期和更年期的营销推广中受益?
Original English
Host: How do you think IVF would benefit from the marketing push that perimenopause and menopause are getting right now?
Kathryn Blaze Baum: 我很高兴围绝经期和更年期目前得到了推广。我是一名40岁出头的女性,我正朝着那个方向发展。我非常感激正在发生的这场大声的对话。我确信还有很多工作要做,但令人欣慰的是,这一切并没有发生在暗处。很高兴我们在公交站都能看到相关信息,很高兴我们在谈论它。我认为关于生育的对话也在增多,但还需要更多。我认为我们需要以更坦诚、更诚实的态度来讨论。我认为我们需要让人们理解并传达生育能力会随着年龄增长而下降。流产率会随着年龄增长而增加,IVF成功率也会随着年龄增长而下降。我们需要非常清楚地说明这一点,以便人们能够衡量他们的期望。我还认为我们需要更清楚地说明这可能给人们带来的经济、身体和情感上的负担,因为当你去诊所时,你通常已经身心俱疲,但你仍然抱有希望,因为你即将做一些不同的事情,一些新的事情。科学在这里提供帮助,在很多方面确实如此。显然,我非常感激IVF和现代科学。但也有局限性,我认为我们需要谈论这些。我认为我们需要更清楚地告知患者、女性、男性、所有人,这实际上涉及到什么,以及它可能看起来和感觉起来是怎样的。
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Kathryn Blaze Baum: I am grateful for the push that perimenopause and menopause are getting right now. Like I am a woman in my early 40s, like I am headed in that direction. And I am so grateful that there is this loud conversation that is happening. I'm sure there's much more that needs to happen, but how wonderful that this isn't happening in the shadows. How wonderful that we see it on bus stops. How wonderful that we're talking about it. And I think that there is more conversation around fertility that's happening, but there needs to be even more. And I think we need to be having it in much more frank and honest terms. And I think we need to understand and convey to people that fertility does decline with age. Miscarriage rates increase with age, IVF success rates decline with age. We need to be very clear about that so that people can sort of measure their expectations. And I also think we need to be more clear about the financial toll, the physical toll and the emotional toll that this can have on people, because by the time you show up at a clinic, you're usually at a pretty beaten down place, but you're trying to be hopeful because you're about to do something different and you're about to do something new. And science is here to help. And in many ways it does. And obviously, I am very grateful for IVF and modern science. But there are limits, and I think we need to talk about those. And I think we need to be much more clear with patients, women, men, everyone, all people about what this actually involves and what it can look and feel like.
给踏上生育之旅的人的建议
主持人: 怀抱两个宝宝,您会对那些即将踏上这段旅程的女性或夫妇说些什么?
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Host: With two babies in arms. What would you tell women or couples who are embarking on this journey?
Kathryn Blaze Baum: 我想说的是,首先也是最重要的,请衡量你们的期望,了解对你们个人情况的成功率。多问问题,因为作为踏上这场生存之旅的生育患者,我们常常非常绝望,而且常常信息不足。这可能是一个危险的组合。所以请多问问题,做好研究。然后我还会说,这可能听起来有点矛盾,但你仍然需要抱有希望,因为希望会支撑你走下去。我说它听起来矛盾是因为我也要求你们衡量期望,但我认为你可以调整你的期望,同时仍然抱有希望。期望某事发生和希望某事发生是有区别的。
Original English
Kathryn Blaze Baum: I mean, I would say first and foremost, like, please measure your expectations, understand what the success rates are for somebody in your personal position. Ask a lot of questions because as fertility patients embarking on this existential journey, we are oftentimes quite desperate and oftentimes quite uninformed. So that can be a dangerous combination. So please ask questions and do your research. And then I would also say in this kind of maybe sounds a bit contradictory, but I think you also need to have hope because it is what's going to carry you through. I say that it sounds contradictory because I'm also asking you to measure your expectations, but I think you can kind of calibrate your expectations and still have hope. There's a difference between expecting something to happen and hoping for something to happen.
主持人: 好的,非常感谢。
Original English
Host: Great. Thank you very much.
Kathryn Blaze Baum: 谢谢。
Original English
Kathryn Blaze Baum: Thank you.
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Original English
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